Im happily married never felt this befor so is it normal to sudenly start fancying another man while pregnant?

Question

I used to fancy this guy years ago and he felt the same about me too, but he's my husbands mate. Ive been married 7 years we've 2 kids and 1 on the way ( im 18 wks), I really love my husband to bits and cant understand why I feel like this, do you think its because Im pregnant or would I be feeling like this anyway? I never felt like this in my last 2 pregnancys. I cant stop thinking about what it would be like to sleep with this guy, please help Im so confused!

Answer 1

Yes and no...haha obviously you had a thing for this person prior to pregnancy. However, many pregnant women fantasize about exes or other "unobtainable" people. I love my husband to a trillion pieces he has been great through this entire pregnancy but I have had fantasies about a certain celeb....heh no I'm sure it is entirely normal..hormones are all over the place. I am sure you love your husband very much! You may not want to share your feelings with your husband though...they tend not to understand.

Answer 2

I find that I was definitely more sexually active when pregnant. I don't know if it were the hormones or extra blood down there but it is quiet normal to have stronger sexual desires when pregnant. Just in this case it is a little dangerous to act on them. Just keep them as fantasies.. They may wear off through out time. But expect to have some pretty raunchy dreams!! Especially in the second and third trimester.

Answer 3

Everyone fantasizes at one point or another not everyone tells and not everyone acts their fantasies out. Just make sure you keep it all in your mind and when you get those urges do your husband instead...he wont complain about that!!!! Don't give into those urges!