Im hartbroken :( what shal i do please :( ?

Question

ok . im 13 and a few days ago i met this boy in the local campsite on holiday up my roed. we got on realy well. he was so nice to me and i found out that he fancied me. i realy fancy him to tho ! but the thing is i will never see him again ina few days as he is leaving and lives hours away :( i have never loved some one as mutch as him and all my other relation ships have been s***! i have had 5 boyfriends (yes i no im bad !) in the last 3 weeks ! i realy like him and i dont no what to say to him ! ill just be hartbrokedn when he has to go i feel like crying now ...and yes it does feel like the end of the world ..

ok theres the downsides.. lol

he smokes all theses drugs

and is quite chavie

but its ok i told him i dont smoke ore drink n hes fine with that ! i no its bad but i realy love him i ould never do any of that anyway but please give advice :(

thanks

x

Answer 1

look gurl yur only 13! u have a long road ahead of you to find the right guy! i would tell him how you feel about him just to let him know but don't try to date him, you'll only become more heartbroken when you never get to see him! instead exchange emails and phone numbers and keep in touch and remain friends! long distance relationships never work especially for 13 year olds.

but don't worry down the road you'll have your heart broken you'll break a few hearts and you'll find really great guys and you'll love a couple of them too! there are so many fish in the sea.... just keep this one as a close friend and just keep looking.

Answer 2

You're 13 years old STOP  trying to date!  Just be 13!  Yes it will hurt when he leaves but focus on your schoolwork and your friends, take up a hobby or join the school band or some other club.  You've got your whole life to worry about relationships but you only get to be a kid once. Enjoy being a kid and focus on getting good grades not on being with some boy.

Answer 3

"Chavie"???

Rebirth, is that you again?

Answer 4

It may hurt to leave him but really is it heart break? Won't you find someone else soon anyway? If you really feel so bad, keep in touch with him via texts and emails and instant messenger and you could visit him every so often.

Ask yourself though, is a chav who does drugs really worth all this?

And would you really be ready to commit to a serious relationship anyway when you've gone through 5 boyfriends in 3 weeks?

Keep in touch with him, have fun, perhaps as a friend and see where it goes but don't keep being upset about it - there's nothing you can do to change the distance between you and besides you're only 13. You should be enjoying yourself and hanging out with friends.