Im having a 13th birthday party and i need some ideas, 20 people coming mixed gender, maybe 5 for sleepover..?

Question

The weather will be hot and i cant afford to do anything 'big' no pool parties.

Answer 1

What fun thing are you into now that would be fun to remember your 13th trip around the sun by?  Then see if you can come up with something.  Even though this could be really special for YOU the fact that your guests would see it or be part of it could make it really special for them too (they might want one).

Happy Birthday!!!

Answer 2

Try this site,, sems like a lot of good ideas

http://www.birthdaypartyideas.com/html/p...

Answer 3

Have a picnic party, set up volleyball or croquet, serve plenty of drinks and food, my girls love Jones soda. Set out blankets for people to sit on, have a picnic basket with some favorite snacks, cards or game (Apples to Apples is fun) and a camera for them to take pictures at the party.

When it's getting dark have a fire in a fire pit (they sell them everywhere) and make smores. Don't forget the scary stories!

Have a great Birthday!

Answer 4

Here are some ideas from parties that I have had or been to in the past.

1. Do a scavenger hunt. Divide into two teams of 4 people. Enough to fit in one car. Give each team a digital or polaroid camera and a list of items to find. After one or two hours teams will return to your house and turn in their items. Have a BBQ and people can share pictures and stories of the scavenger hunt and determine the winner. Each picture is worth a different amount of points. You can collect tangible things as well as pictures of the team doing things. Some ideas are:

1. A picture kissing a handsome stranger (the group can vote how many points depending on how handsome)

2. A picture of how many people they can get in a phone booth (one point per person, two if the get people to join in not on their team)

3. A picture with the team posed in crowns from Burger King.

4. A picture with the team standing in front of a Hooters restaurant lifting their shirts over their faces and showing their hooters. (One point for each male and five points for each female)

5. A picture of a team member lying on a pool table.

6. A picture standing or swimming in a park lake.

7. A picture of a team member wearing a trenchcoat.

8. A picture of the team on a slide in a playground.

9. A picture of the men on the team in a women's rest room

10. A picture of the team playing football (bonus if they are wearing helmets)

11. A picture of the team in one dressing room at a department store.

You can also have tangible "Things" on the list that are worth a certain number of points.

-- 1 point items:

paper clips, old movie tickets, a garden tool from the neighbor, napkins or matchbooks from a bar, etc

-- 3 point items:

Include things like an autograph of a high school quarterback or cheerleader (someone from your party)a nametag from a convienence store clerk (bonus points for the longest name), the sexiest pair of boxer shorts or underwear from a neighbor or someone is wearing at the party.

2. Frozen T-shirt contest. The day before the party, get T-shirts wet and put them in the freezer. At the party, whoever can get the shirt on first is the winner.

3. Truth or dare. I know it is cliche and usually ends up amounting to nothing, but it is almost a rite of growing up. If you want to try a different approach, have everyone write five questions for the truth jar and two dares for the dare jar. Each person has to choose from one or the other until they are all gone. This is good for two reasons. First, you might draw your own dare so they aren't too crazy like run down the street naked or something ridiculous that can't be done. Second, it doesn't turn in to escalating dares that become ridiculous and then everyone just chooses truth.

Truth Questions:

1. Have you ever seen a porno film? Who did you watch it with?

2. Who do you fantasize about when you think about s*x?

3. Your lover has been magically transformed into an animal, and the only way to restore your lover is to mate with them. Here's the question: Which animal would cause you the least psychological damage?

4. Would you think it was a turn-on if your bf/gf wanted to watch Disney movies with you?

5. Have you ever cheated on your bf/gf (if they have one), or would you ever cheat?

6. Have you ever gone a whole day without wearing underwear?

7. If you could be born again would choose to be a different s*x to what you are?

8. If you had 24 hours to live, what would you do, what movie star would you want to kiss, and who would you notify that you are dying

9. Describe the sexiest clothes you ever wore and why.

10. When did you stop bathing with your sibling?

11. Who has the biggest balls you've ever seen? (funny since it can be told literally, but someone will take it sexually. I could be talking about a medicine ball!!!)

12. If I was a food what would I be and how would you eat me?!?!

13. What they would do to a girl or boy for a Klondike Bar.

14. How far have you gone?

15. How far would you go with someone you are attracted to, that you just met, and will never see again?

16. What is the most embarrassing thing you've done?

17. Have you ever skinny dipped? If so, when and with who?

18. Would you marry your current bf/gf?

19. Do you really love your bf/gf?

20. Have you ever made a fool of yourself in front of someone you were interested in?

21. What is the stupidest thing you've done because someone dared you to?

22. What is the stupidest thing you've done on your own free will?

23. Tell everyone who you like.

24. What is the strangest dream you've ever had.

25. Which guy (that at least four people playing the game know) do you think has the longest p e n i s?

26. Which girl (that at least four people playing the game know) do you think would give the best BJ?

27. What's your favorite thing about the opposite s*x?

28. What's the worst thing about being your gender?

29. If you could have anyone here in the room to be your slave, who would it be and what would you make them do?

30. Rate five boys that everyone knows on a scale of 1-10 31. What's your idea of a perfect date?

32. Have you ever masturbated? Have you ever been caught?

33. Have you ever had an o****m? Was it by yourself or with a member of the opposite s*x?

33. How old were you when you saw a boy or girl (other than a relative) naked for the first time?

34. Who was the first boy that you let touch your b***s? Why did you let him? or Who was the first girl you showed your peni s to? What were you hoping she would do?

35. If you were a boy, would you want your girlfriend to swallow when she gave you oral s*x? Why?

36. How old were you when you touched a boy's p***s, not counting relatives or babysitting?

37. Have you ever been in a brawl?

38. Who do you think is the best looking person in the room?

39. What is the worst date you have ever been on?

40. If you were invisible what is the first thing you would do?

41. It you were the opposite s*x for one hour, what would you do?

42. How old were you when you had your first real kiss? Tell the tale.

43. Have you ever peed in a pool?

Dares

1. Kiss someone for a given amount of time (ex. kiss for 2 minutes w/ tongue)

2. Find something edible in the kitchen for the person to eat that isn't meant to be eaten straight (ketchup, salt, flour, ...)

3. Run around outside screaming something totally inane. An example being have someone go chanting "I am woman, hear me roar!"

4. Go out on your porch and sing the "I'm a Little Teapot" song.

5. Go out into a public area scratching their crotch and saying, "d**n these crabs really itch!"

6. Have a person smear jelly in one armpit and peanut butter in the other armpit. Then they must take two slices of bread and wipe it off. Then they have to eat the sandwich!

7. Eat a piece of food (such as a grape or whip cream) off someone else's tongue, belly button, butt cheek, etc.

8. Push a penny around the toilet seat with your tongue.

9. Make-out with a pillow or teddy bear for a certain amount of time, say the guy or girl's name they like and make kissing noises.

10. Do a cart wheel naked.

11. Play one round in your underwear.

12. Trade underwear with someone in the game and wear their underwear for one round. When it is your turn again, you have to put your underwear back on.

13. l**k the floor

14. Blow a raspberry on the stomach of the player sitting opposite you

15. Stick their finger in their butt and then l**k it.

16. Pick their nose and eat it in front of the group.

17. If you are a girl, touch someone else's b***s. If you are a boy touch someone's peni$.

18. Dive in a pool naked or run through a sprinkler naked.

Answer 5

you can have a party at the beach

or have a dancing party-  pic 20 hip trance songs, 4 slows, a disco ball- and theres youre party!

or you can have a huge scvanger hunt if youre not mature enough for dancing...

for the sleep over you can have a spa!