Im having a long distance relationship! help me?

Question

he lives over 200 miles away but I love him so much, more than absolutely anything and we try and spend as much time together as we possibly can and never waste time! and he feels the same way about me by the way! but all the time when he is back at home all I do is cry my eyes out and everything! i will never dump him or leave him so no-one say that as a comment because we will never separate

I was just wandering about things to take my mind off the fact we are so far away from each other and help me really look forward to when he actually comes down to see me again? I love him so much?!! he means the world to me but help?!

Answer 1

Why dont u move in with him!!

If u are going to be together for a long time and are not likely going to seperate, i wouldnt mess about, pack your bags, get a job down there and live the life u should with him!

Answer 2

your situation is like my mom's was before she got married. She was living in Texas and he was in Ireland. They never got to see each other. but it worked out in the end because now they're my mom and dad and they aren't divorced. Maybe try and do things you love like bowling or watching movies or something. Hang out with other people you love like your family or best friend, and keep in contact with him as much as you can.

Answer 3

awww sweetheart i know how you feel, that was...and is at the moment...the situation with me and my fiance...just the way university and jobs and stuff have worked out...it sucks

but try to focus on the good times you do have together...and try to talk as much as you can ...be it by instant messaging or on the phone ( i know this isn't the same as seeing him in person but it helps )...

try to find things to keep yourself busy so that you aren't dwelling on it too much ya know...i always find it's worse when i'm not doing anything...

remember that you may be apart now, but it isn't forever :)...and hopefully soon you won't have to be apart so much anymore...

there's an old saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" well it's true!

hope this helps

Answer 4

First of all, Congrats to your happiness! You sound really in love. It is great that you two have been able to make it work.

I recommend just staying in touch, and taking things slow. You have a harder time getting to know each others true selves because you can't be around each other all the time. You need to know if this is merely infatuation or real love and only time can help you with that.

No one expects you to dump him, that would be crazy if you have all these feelings for him. But, perhaps you two could meet more, maybe one week you go see him and the next weekend he comes to see you. Or you can meet in the middle.

Good luck

Guardianofthemoon

Answer 5

Why are you so far away? job/ school commitments? I feel so sorry for the both of you, it must be fustrating to have found the one but be so far from each other.

The only thing you can do is wait until your circumstances change and move in with each other. :( In the meantime video-call each other all the time :)

Answer 6

You could try and see if yall can both get webcams and see each other through webcams and get microphones

Can u help me with mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Good Luck

Hope this helps

Answer 7

Just think how lucky you are to have found true love. Not everyone can say the same. I for one, out of necessity, live with a woman I no longer love.  So just count your blessings, look at it as a great opportunity and a wondertful experience, and it won't seem half as bad anymore.  

Answer 8

why dont you move nearer to him? sorry to state the obvious but why cant you? or could he move nearer to you?

being apart will never get any easier and you never get used to it. you need to do something about it.

good luck.