Im in a relationship with a girl for the past 3 and half years.....and recently her parents came to know?

Question

so the situation is like my parents are a bit ok with it but not encouraging much but her parents are like saying no no.....and coming to the all time fav topic of caste......shes a brahmin while im not.......so is there a chance that they may agree to our relationship at a later stage...???

presntly both of us are 19 years old.....so say at about 24 or 25 will they agree or get her married soon????

Answer 1

hey i m in the same situation but me & my partner have decided to be well setteled first. means first we will make ourself totally independent then we will think of all. I think you should do the same because when you will be fully established then no one will stop you so just concentrate on your career.. you have enough time to think about marriage. Caste can never be an obstacle if you are sure about your marriage.

Answer 2

break a record to convince her parents !

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Answer 3

ok , you kno wat its a bit complicated situation.

Ur age is 19 ,

u both like each other,

Caste is problem u say,

Still ya its possible tht in proper age they may agree,,,

if her parents dnt agree, then ull have to convince or ur Gf will have too,

JST make sure tht u both really love each other and will not back off frm ny situation, and will help and be with each other watever happens.

After such a committement only  this kind of problems are solved,,, but THINK, dnt act without thinking..

If CASTE problem arises then u shld make  parents understand tht this is modern era and 21st century and this all shld not preval a good relation frm happening

all the best.

Answer 4

so now it became very easy for you if you are really love her

because as you have the fear of the parents so now its finish

now you has to directly goto them and   communicate with them sinciorly.

ok

so best of luck

Answer 5

caste is not at all a problem...but think so they will accept ur love...don b afraid ya....chill..

Answer 6

well dude 1st of all its not d age to marry n secondly cast r old sayings now try make a brillent carreer then they will never say no they will hav only one answer yes for u so keep it up in u r studies .  

Answer 7

           Look buddy I don't think caste is any matter for refusal for u marrying ur, and any way u are only 19, concentrate on ur studies and career and by the time u are 24 or 25 with good JOB in ur hand, u would be in a better position to ask ur GF's parents about u being married to their daughter.

           And by the way by the time u turn to 24-25 I am quite sure that might have switched to some other girl.  

Answer 8

First both of you think about your career and if you are stand on your own feet then nobody stops you then do whatever you want.

Answer 9

That entirely depends on the girl and her family. As of Brahmins, they "generally" prefer marrying their daughters (specially) into the same caste, since this issue is a big one in Hindus. Taking another case of your age, since you are too young, and the age of marriage is far away, they must have felt that the kids are too naive to decide about their life partners. Another case maybe when parents want to  choose the groom for their daughter by their own.

Whatever be the case, I feel , that 24 or 25 age is around 5-6 years from now, and you really cannot predict the future, so things might turn out against or maybe for!

If you both really love each other, then you must have patience, and faith in God, because God is always with true lovers, unless their destiny deprives them off it. So just pray and hope for the best... and don't worry... :)