Im in love with an older man and i dont know what to do?

Question

i am 16 year old girl and i am in love with a 36 year old man, i cant tell my family or friends because they all think i am pathetic, i really do love him but i could do with some peoples opinion's. please tell me

Answer 1

you want my honest opinion, that's ******* gross! its considered rape and that guy should be in jail, your only 16 your not in love your infatuated with him...hes taking advantage of you being so young and naive...leave it alone and find someone your age! trust me if you find someone around your age you will be better off  and you two will have alot more in common and you can love someone you don't have to be afraid to introduce to your friends and family

Answer 2

He's your second father.

Answer 3

I think you have a school girl crush. Hey I could be wrong but please, wait until you're above 18...

Answer 4

wow, hes that old, anyways s***w all the other people and tell him how u feel.

Answer 5

hes old enough to be your dad. im not tryin to question you or anythin but do you really know what love is at that age. im sure you jus have a crush on him because he is prolly caring, good looking, and mature

Answer 6

Well. if u really love him ........ tel every one

and it  is a shame to not tellin anyone

Answer 7

go for it

Answer 8

does he love you? have ya'll done things together???? I think its fine but you may want to wait til you 18 if you havent done the s*x thing because he could get in trouble

Answer 9

wow, that is a big age difference but don't feel bad  about it cause i had this problem, (liking an older guy) but does he like you back or are you two dating? it is a lil weird but w/o knowing more about the relationship I can't really help you out. but if you don't know if he likes you back don't go for it you don't want him to land in jail

Answer 10

Im sorry, but please... find a younger man.

Answer 11

wow u should find another guy

Answer 12

I thought you were 14. Oh well. Look you are obviously a slapper so to be on the safe side get your legs stitched.

Answer 13

I think that first off he is reallly a lot older than you,BUT

if you really do think you love him i would go with what the others said wait at least till your 18....then you can tell your family (parents) about him.

hope i helped. God bless you :)

Answer 14

umm you kinda sould like my best friend shes in love with an 18 year old guy who takes advantage of her all the time. age is nothing but a number but 36 honey not worth it  

Answer 15

From personal experience myself, rethink it.  I am divorcing mine, he's 13 yrs older.  

Answer 16

I don't feel like sharing my story, but just know that I have been in your shoes. If you truly love somebody and you feel comfortable around him, than s***w what anyone else thinks. Take it from me, don't sacrifice your own happiness for anybody.