Im in love with him what do i do??

Question

I been with him for 5 years has been a bumping relationship, have 2 kids with him, weve been having problems i hav really bad habits and want to change, he saind he cant take it anymore and left and said he dont love any more havent talked to him for 6 days not answering my calls. i love him and need him back what can i do to show him that i can change my bitcheness and want him back ive said sorry so many times and still did it a gain but this time i mean it when i say i want to change what should i do hes talking to girls aready i dont know if its to try to get over me or what help???

Answer 1

Hun to be honest, its not about talking with him anymore as he is fed up w/u saying that your'e sorry but then turning right around and doing the exact same thing again, so i suggest that u give it time, i cannot see a person saying that they love u at first then falling out of love w/you in a short pd of time, its highly impossible, plus if its true love it never fails, so if he said that he don't love you i really do not believe that simply b/c why would he stay w/u for the last 5 yrs, and have 2 kids w/u, so i believe what he feels is alot of hurt probably from what u have caused him, and in that u need to give him some space so he can get himself together, and figure out what he really wants inspite if him saying to u that he don't love u anymore.Y'know what i mean hun!

Just give him some time, stop calling him, let him have his space, and soon enough he'll  be the one calling you back, but in the meantime work on yourself in trying to get better, and improve on you.GL hun!