Im in love with my best (guy) friend.........help??

Question

my best friend, is really cool and funny, and cute and i really like him.

we've been friends for the past 12 years.

we r 15

im not really sure if he likes me or not, sometimes, he wants 2 spend all of his time with me and sometimes he sort of drifts off 2 some random place.

we r really close.

our other friends say that he likes me, but hes just shy (which he is)

but, i just want 2 noe for sure..

help>.......?

Answer 1

Drop hints on him, and if he is responding you well, then he will ask you out.  I wish you good luck, my friend.

Answer 2

U should go and ask him yourself. Really, he's ur best friend, that means it shouldn't be too awkward. He may like u too if u've been friends for that long. If he says he doesn't feel the same way, shake it off and forget about it. that just means ur meant to be friends and nothing more.  

Answer 3

you should just ask him in person and just say that u are wondering if u are too shy to do that then text him or somthing and just ask him if he likes anyone!

I did the one in person before and asked him if he liked anyone and it worked.

Answer 4

If you dont already, work in hugs as much as possible.  "Hi stevie" *hugs*  "bye stevie" *hugs*   that sort of thing.  And one time sooner or later accidentally drop a kiss.  that'll about do it.

I married my best friend   :)

Answer 5

That is a very great place to start.  

Answer 6

look girl ; i think you should tell him and if he doesnt like you that way (but im sure he does) then you need to respect that and still talk to him as good friends ya know? but i think you should tell him iN PERS0N thoughhh! so he really understandsss. ya know? good luck on whatever you do girl!

Answer 7

U start to ask him.

Answer 8

http://teenadvice.about.com/library/teen...

I suggest doing this to find out if what you're feeling is real, if you think it is, than I suggest you tell him. If he's your best friend, than it should be easier than you think.

Answer 9

It depends how much you treasure his friendship. Remember, if you hook up with him and it doesn't work out, you guys will possible never be friends again. You need to decide if you want him as a friend or a boyfriend. Do you want him to be your friend for a long time, or your boyfriend for possibly a short time? As you think about this, just wait to see if he asks you out. I mean come on, he has to prove he really wants you by asking you out. It's the guy's duty. So just feel free to think about it as you wait for him to ask you out ( if he really wants to).

Answer 10

This one is easy,try to hold his hand and see his reaction.

try to get close to him and see if he gets away from your body.

look straight in his eyes and see if he looks away.

Put on something very s**y like a skirt and look away but check if he checks you out when you're not looking or even better flirt with someone when you look hot,and check if he gets jealous about it. most like it he's going to talk c**p about the person he feels jealous about, like he's ugly,a losser, name it!

However don't said anything till you can prove it,

otherwise if he's shy you going to scare him away,and he'll not tell you

his feelings be cautious and good luck!