Im in my 20's. It was my first time having intercourse but something weird happened, IT DID NOT GO IN!!! why?

Question

IT was my first time having intercourse but his p***s did not go all the way in.he kept trying and he couldnt...why could this be? Was I too tense, thinking too much of what was happening, or I wasn't lubricated enough??? Please help!

Thank You...

Answer 1

He may have been nervous, you were probably nervous, and that certainly doesn't help things. So, keep that in mind. It may have made you a little tighter than normal.

Also, it's hard to lubricated if you're nervous, so, yes, that may have been part of it as well.

My suggestion, lots of foreplay, some lubrication (Wet or KY), and just trying to relax...also some time. You may want to...*ahem* take his member and help him get it in, if you didn't try that.

If you're in the heat of the moment, (and safe!), it will all come a lot easier, don't over think it.

Have fun!

Answer 2

just try to relax. you should try taking you time with the whole thing esp. the foreplay part because, the more aroused you get the easier it can be.  

Answer 3

Well there is a disorder that can make your vaginal muscles contract instead of relax when you're aroused. But you were probably just nervous or not aroused enough. Foreplay is a necessity.

Good luck. :-) Hope it works out next time.

Answer 4

It could be because you were too tense and weren't relaxed, it could be because you weren't lubricated enough, or because your still really tight especially if he was kinda big. I don't think that it is anything to worry about. If not next time, a couple of times after that it probably will go in all the way. Unless if he just can't because he is too big.  

Answer 5

maybe his wee wee is so short you couldn't feel it.

Answer 6

it sounds to me like his p***s was not hard enough if it was it would have slipped in if u were turned on and i am sure u were u would have been wet enough so his p***s needed to be harder don't worry do it again u may have been a little nervous the 2 of u bless u both and give it another try and congrats on saving your virginity

Answer 7

Sounds like it might be vaginismus. Check out the link, and good luck.

Answer 8

You were probably not lubricated enough because you were too tense, thinking too much.

Don't worry, it will all go fine eventually. Try and persuade him to perform oral s*x on you in order to feel more relaxed and become better lubricated.

Have fun!