Im in the 8th grade and need help (8th graders only)?

Question

what do i have to do to fit in the popular group in my school

Answer 1

you should study hard

Answer 2

Okay I'm going to 8th grade, and you don't have to be in the popular group just be with your buds. Or u can try wearing designer labels and chatting with a lot people!

Answer 3

-At lunch, go up to the popular table and say "hey, this looks like the fun table, mind if I sit here?" they'll most likely say yes, but in the case that they don't, respond calmly with "oh that's cool, maybe another time." and walk away without looking back. If you do get to sit with them, say a few funny remarks (but make sure it's not insulting to anyone at all, that will make you look rude!), but mostly be a good listener at first. Don't be completely silent though, or else they'll forget you're there!

-In class, say "hey, want to work together on this assignment? it's totally dull doing it on my own!"

-Dress like them, but throw your own signature flare into it. that way, they'll notice your cool style.

-Wear a fun piece of jewlery so they'll be bound to ask about it, starting an instant convo!

-Act completely "whatever" around them (but not in a stuck up way!). Just always think of yourself on the same level as them, because they'll notice your cool attitude, and want to find out if you'd be a good friend. But along with your calm demeanor, always be pleasent to talk to, and sound completely kind and sincere.

-Remember that it takes baby steps. Once you're good enough friends with them (meaning, talk at school, eat together, laugh together, ect.), invite them to a movie and say "you can invite some friends if you want aswell. the more the marrier!" that will make you sound like you're super social and fun loving. It's all uphill from there!

Answer 4

COCAINE. LOTS OF IT. ALSO, s*x. LOTS OF IT.

Answer 5

drugs LOTS OF THEM

alcohol LOTS OF IT

food LESS OF IT

middle finger A LOT OF IT

s*x LOTS OF IT

sleep LESS OF IT

Answer 6

i agree with the monster on that one

aslo do well

elizabeth

Answer 7

I never tried to be popular i just was ALWAYS in the office speakin to the principle or assistant prinicple [not fun] because i supposably HARRASS this girl at skool, all i ever did was call her a few names after she did it to me, she wants to play the game i can too rite?

anyways.

dont do that t sucks and u never know if ur gonna end up graduating on stage!!

well thats a tip not an answer:]]

did i mention a lot of people noticed me tho lol

and i also egged her locker and stole like 20 bucks from her.

i guess wat gets u noticed is...

s*x, rebelliousness lol, drugs, yahhh

Answer 8

Be clean-wear fresh clothes every day. It doesn't matter if they are brand name or not, as long as they're clean. Wash your hair and brush it. Make sure you don't stink.

Be nice-be nice to everyone. It doesn't matter if they aren't nice to you, jump out on a limb and be nice to them.

Be outgoing-don't slink around in the shadows. Walk right up to the popular group and start talking.

Be funny-even if you don't know any jokes, laugh when other people tell them

Study hard-make sure that your getting Bs and As with the occasional C.

Answer 9

just be yourself don't pretend to be something your not if they don't like you f**k them

Answer 10

well normally i wouldn't say this but what the heck i will tell you

make friends with ONE of the leaders of the popular people when there alone them find them at lunch and ask if you can sit with them they will introduce you to their friends and bango you are in

Answer 11

lets start with the way you phrased that question

8th graders only- makes it seem like you dont want people to know you and being popular is basically about every one knowing you.

Im about to start tenth so i've been there done that.

Put at least a little bit of attention to what you wear and what complements you, but dont change your style. Find something nice to do with your hair.

Join groups and make more friends with the leaders and nicest of the clique you want to get in to. They're usualy the most acceptant, but dont ditch your old ones cuz that makes you look like a pathetic arrogant social climber.

Be nice to everyone. Walk down the halls with a slight smile on your face. It makes people think oh she must be nice. If you just go around growling at the world it makes people think ur angry at the world so there for your angry at them and people dont like it when people are angry at them so they wont like you.

Its a complex phycological circle...thing.

Answer 12

Even though I am in 10th grade, I am answering this anyway. You shouldn't try to be someone your not. Usually it if pretty obvious when someone is trying to impress another anyhow. Are you embarrassed to be seen with the friends you have now? I was that way in 6th grade, and I did make other friends, then lost those. I'm not friends with that group of friends anymore because they changed in an instant. In high school they all thought they were above everyone else and started drinking and partying alot and I'm not. I don't believe in 'the popular crowd, band geeks, nerds...', its bull. Well I am rambling but stick with the friends you have because you wouldn't be able to bet completely yourself with those other girls and those things lead to drama, drama, drama. But... If you DO believe that you are like those other girls and would enjoy being friends with them then throw a little bash and invite them to come. An easy way to go would be to get close to one of the girls. Ask her to a sleepover, then be straight up and say "Your friends seem pretty cool, maybe they could come too?". I hope that that was somewhat helpful. Good luck!

Answer 13

its tough. but try and approach people that u think are "popular" talk to them about things that popular people talk about. if that doesnt help make sure u get into teamwork groups with them then they can learn more about u. just act as friendly as u can. be smart and just dress normal and dont act geeky.

Answer 14

usually,

being popular means

getting in TROUBLE

which is not something that i want to tell you about!

if you want a lot of people to know you,

talk to more people

BE FRIENDLY

hang out w/ the same ppl you usually do,

but make new ones too. :)