Im just the back-up!?

Question

I hang around with the same group of friends all the time!

They are so awesome but there's kind of a leader of our pack,

i keep feeling she doesn't like me! What should i do?

She always says hey you coming? to everyone else and they go and say to me do i wanna come? but then she just keeps walking

Answer 1

if you feel like your not wanted then why do you stay make new friend create your own lil world full of excitement dont follow anyone like a lil yard fowl be a leader and if there are really your friends they will come to you

Answer 2

I've had the same problem awhile ago. Be interesting and SPEAK UP. I mean, talk about cool stuff and don't just hang back. Ask questions and talk and walk right with them. DOn't always hang around them, and make sure you go chat with others or just make it seem like your busy. But not all the time.

Get her/them to see you interacting with a lot of cool friends and having fun, that'll gain you respect.

Answer 3

thats why i hate going places with groups cause i ALWAYS feel left out like that & it seems like theyre just forgetting me & they dont like me. Ughhh i know how you feel, i hate hate hate that. im trying to change that from happening to me all the time when im w/ a group, but i dont know how =[

what is your question, though??