Im need help with asking the love of my life to marry me?

Question

ok iv been with my baby for 2 years and 3 months and im about to graduate this year than im off to the air force ok well i want to ask her to marry me but i dont know when the best time is to do this. im thinking to wait like the last week before i leave to the Air Force to ask or the last day or some thing like that. And i dont know how to do it....like were do i do it at her house or at a resturant or at the beach or some thing like that. so plz if you could help me than do so for Love

Answer 1

Don't wait til u leave.

Don't act nervous and don't give off any clues or hints.

Take her to a nice rest/her fav resturant. Take her to the beach in the evening.  Light some candles take a bottle of wine and some roses.  Just act like your on a regular date and have a reg. conversation.  In the middle some where let her know what she means to you and the joy that she brings you.  Get her feeling all good inside then get on your knee and give her a short nice speech and pull out the ring.

Answer 2

well you love her, so you know her really well. Ask yourself what you think she would want you to do. As a girl I know we daydream about this kind of stuff and always dream of being proposed to a certain way, and that the guy would know how to without ever having to ask us.

So think about that, and if nothing comes to mind go some place that has been a special place for the both of you.

OR try spontaneity, like walking down the street or what not, begin a conversation that has to do with your relationship, and then stop suddenly and get down on a knee.

I hope this will help you :) Good Luck

Answer 3

I'm going to tell you from a woman's point of view.  There is no "right" time to ask her per say.  Ask her right now..  her mind is probably weighing heavily right now knowing that you are about to leave and she is silently thinking "what do I do now?"  Give her the shock of her life and take her to the beach with a bottle of champagne and pop the question.  Men like you are hard to find so keep your woman close and treat her kind, the rest will happen naturally, I assure you.

Good luck to you.

Answer 4

maybe ask a few weeks before you leave. You'll have time to celebrate. The beach is a good idea - the two of you will have some privacy. If you are just graduating high school, maybe a promise ring is a good idea. That will give you time to focus on the air force for a year(or so) without the stress of wedding planning. Good luck!  

Answer 5

tattoo the question on your butt

Answer 6

Don't do it right before you leave.  Your friends and family (and the two of you!) will want to celebrate.  I think it would be so hard to go from the high of getting engaged to the love of your life, to the low of having him leave for Air Force training, all in 24 hours.

Do it in a way/place that you think will be special, but also relaxed (so you aren't to nervous to get the words out the way you want), but I think you should reconsider the timing.

Answer 7

Don't wait until the last day. She may need time to think about it and that day is going to be emotional enough as it is. Take her to the place you took her for your first date or her favorite restaurant. If she is really close to her family, you may want to do it in front of them.  

Answer 8

make her go on a scavenger hunt and at the end she finds a big huge box and your in it on one knee holding a ring saying will you marry me!!! That's how my fiance proposed to me!