Im newly married woman my husband is very fond of his mother,sister he use to tell them each&everything but ?

Question

now a days we has some financial problem raising,my husband think that after marriage he was not happy,im not lucky for him,now diffferences come between us.he is outside india ,im in my house.i don't know how to convencience him that i love him.im feeling insecure abt my relationship.we both r short tempered,he dosent give any importance to me,im helpless how to live happpy&successful relation

Answer 1

Ask him to Grow Up. But such men never grow Up. Trust Me. My husband is one of these kinds... holding his mother's Sari's end all the time.

             I have been married for 5 years.. He is still the same.. But fortunately he loves me a lot and there r no differences between us.

Answer 2

Hmmm, ur story is very common in India now.

Well i suggest that u should send him loves sms`s, keep in touch with him convey him ur love with gifts and all stuff. be good to him dont fight.

ofcourse we feel to fight if wrong things happens to us, but to keep ur relationship dont lose ur temper.

talk to him. tell him about ur feelings, tell him that if he does not respect u then who will?? Have patience.

on the part of u r mother and sister in law, be good to them too. no matter how they behave with u or how ur hubby behave with them.. u have to keep in mind that u have to spend ur life with ur hubby not with them.

if nothing is working out then take divorce. coz if the husband does not give love, respect to his wife then why that marriage should stand??

Answer 3

First of all have faith in yourself, everything is done or achieved by positive attitude. Talk with your husband convince him that you are always with him in any stage of life. For gaining his faith and trust by care your mother and sister-in-law.

Answer 4

I think u shud try to understand him first, find out what he want from you.

Listen to him first nd then tell ur problems politely nd don't loose ur temper as it can ruin ur relationship.

All The Best  

Answer 5

try to win hearts of your husband family by serving them with sincerity and love.One day your husband will surely realize and you will be the winner.

Answer 6

i think u should make him realize that u r also an important part of his life.

u should tell him to help u in keeping ur relation with him alive.also try to be cool.dont be so short tempered.

nothing would acheived if u stay that way.

Answer 7

Hi,

  frist be cool and think how to convensce him, talk to him or mail abut ur feelings or write a letter and don't be feel insecure, be confident...............ok if u want how to convense him write a mail to me i will advce u       o.k.@[e-mail]

Answer 8

why do'nt u try to join him,and live at his work place.talk to him.if thats not working,atleast try to talk to him often,and tell him u are his wife and willing to live with him.find out the reason.did he want u to be with his mother,after marriage and u decided to go to your house,as in india,after marriage the girl is in the husband's house even if the husband is working abroad? or is ther anything that happened that is trying to make him more closer to his mother and sister? find out.

Answer 9

Honey, you're not the insecure one. He is!

Answer 10

he should cut the apron strings, he's a married man now.

he doesn't sound like a great catch btw, maybe leave him in india and move on.

Answer 11

dont worry,try to understand his behaviour.tell to ur parents.theycan solve.

Answer 12

if he dosent give you any importance do some thing let him if he love you, he will return. which leaves you it will not deserve it

Answer 13

its just a passing phase...im sure it will go with time..ur relationship with him has just started i feel u both need time with each other..y dont u join him..y are u staying at ur place n hez outside c if u both can be together..im sure that will make a lot of difference...

as far as his family is concerned u cant really change them or their attitutude..i wud suggest that if u can keep them happy try that first but if that seems impossible (like it is with most of us) ignore them to the extent that u can dont let them hamper ur relationship with ur husband..concentrate on ur self n him...im sure with passage of time he will understand that u truely luv him....

give it a try..im sure things wud work..its too early to think of seperation n divorce from him atleast give one whole hearted try..

Answer 14

this happens at the begining of the marriage at least in india, dont worry, you know him only after marriage, and his parents and family are with him from a long time, it'll take sometime to get him with you, just try to do what he says and keep him happy, he'll be alright.

goodluck :))

Answer 15

you need to move far away from his family.  

i think you really need to move far, far away from his family.

i highly suggest that you run away from his family at a high pace.

take a rocket ship and fly away from the relatives.

plan it today, do it tomorrow.

Answer 16

hmhmm this is very serious  situation.

I don't want to interfere but i think you should talk to his or your parents about this whole thing if you can.

Answer 17

talk to him...tell him exactly wat u feel...and dont get offended try to control temper...and make him understand wat is ur problem...

Answer 18

Try to get time sit down with your beloved husband, see where all these problems are coming from, after knowing the source look for the solution, if you cannot solve it by yourselves i believe you have your best couple, sit down with them and discuss the problem and during this time both of you must be transparent enough.  above all ask God to intervene and because he is the one who gives am sure you will get the to the right direction. otherwise am praying for you