Im not aloud to go to discos!!?

Question

I'm 15 years old and still my mother wont let me go to discos!! i have been asking for a while now but she thinks I'm to young! i always have to come up with excuses as why cant go all the time and i think people are starting to know that im lying!!

is there anyway i can convince my mother that i should be aloud to go and that i know the dangers and i can take care of myself now!!

would appritiate if anyone could give me some advice please!!

Answer 1

Try to prove to your mum  that you are responsible enough to go to discos. Once she sees that you are being more grown up she may begin to let you go. If she still doesn't trust you sit down with her and talk through the subject, this way you may be able to resolve the situation.

Answer 2

i wasn't allowed to go to disco's for ages (well it felt like ages, i was about 13 when i first got out) but sad as it is to say, you're mother is kinda right. a lotta stuff happens at discos (i don't know where you're from, maybe it's different there than it is where i am) but at 15 i'd be going crazy too! you're not too young, that's quite old for someone to never have gone to a disco before (no offence).

tell her how you feel. i know i used to feel kinda left out and alienated (that might be a strong word) when i couldn't go. don't emotionally blackmail her or anything, just try to explain how you feel reasonably and calmly and she might become a bit more responsive.

and just tell your friends the truth, that you're not allowed go. i know it's slightly embarrassing, but hey, you aren't your mother, it's not like you're the one who doesn't want to go.

good luck with it!

Answer 3

Listen to your mother but first check your spelling!

Answer 4

whats the hurry you are not missing out on much and if you party to hard now you are going to look 30 when you are 20 trust me  

Answer 5

Listen to your Mother, I am on her side.

Answer 6

heyy hi!!

one you wont be allowed to enter the discos unless you have an id showing you are 18

two- your mum got much more experience of life. you should listen to her

three- try to make your own discos at home by inviting your friends

Answer 7

Ok I'm going to be as less biased as possible.  I'm on not yours nor your mum's side here.  I understand where you're coming from with you thinking you're old and able enough to handle yourself.  Well lets think, are you really?  I have female friends at 16 who go to the capital for a drinking session.  What do I get a call about next day?  That one of them end up in an allyway puking from alcohol poisoning and they didn't know where they were.  Now, I'm not saying that's going to be you.  I hope you're more intelligent and mature than my friends.  

Now yeah discos are fun and it's good to have a few dances with you're friends, some charming guys etcetra.  But it aint all that safe you know.  There's some predators out there who look for young teenage girls.  Now I know you think "That won't happen to me."  I've heard it all to be honest.  Some people who have said that nearly ended up in bed drunk with somebody they didn't know.  You're mum worries about you.  What's the rush anyway?  Take my advice, don't start getting into this clubbing mood just yet.. the outcome aint really all that good.  Have some restraint, wait a year or two.  You have your whole life.  You don't need to go clubbing just because you're friends go.  If you get slagged for it then they're not really you're friends.