Im not sure if i should marry my sweety, thats a sign right?

Question

if something happens in our relationship i getup and leave, he had an argument with one of his family members that upset him, he was taking it out on me, i was confused, i did nothing wrong, he was very rude to me, he should tell me whats bothering him right, i moved out before he got home from work, furniture everything, then later he told me what was going on, Its wrong that i keep running? Im scared to go back this time in the fear of a marriage wouldn't work,!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! should people take chances!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

both of you are not ready for marriage.  you guys need to work on some communication skills.  him blowing up on you is not good. listen to your gut instinct.  it's telling you something.

Answer 2

Sandy, the only thing he wants is a piece of azz from you and the rest of you isn't worth a shiit from what you just wrote.

Answer 3

Your not ready for marriage. You can't run away from conflict. Try reading self help books on marriage to understand it before you do it. Maybe counseling would help. If you asked too soon about his argument with the family, he might've not wanted to talk about it just then and took it out on you. Sometimes waiting to talk things out is better. Try couples counseling.

Answer 4

I think certain people deserve a chance, one thing i can say dont let fear push you away from love!

Answer 5

it depends on what exactly u are scared about. if u r scared that he is going to hurt u in any way at all, or u r scared of his anger when he gets upset then i think this is a good reason to leave. but if u r just scared that a marriage wont work then this is something u can work on so a marriage can be successful. maybe give him one more chance, tell him u love him but his anger is giving u second thoughts about ur life together and that if he cant learn to control his anger and not take it out on u all the time then ur relationship is over.

but it is wrong that u just get up an leave after each fight u have, i mean everybody fights, and they are usually always resolved in the end anyway, next time u fight try and work it out before u leave  

Answer 6

He needs to deal with himself and learn to talk things out with you, fighting doesn't solve the issues, talking does and listening too.  Sounds like you both could use some counseling.  Running a way doesn't solve the problem either you need to face them head-on.  Try to work it out and understand each other good and bad points and work on them together.  Best to you both.