Im only 16.. yet i feel like i want to be mother already?? is that normal? this is serious so dont be rude?

Question

and yes i know that after pregnancy its about the baby..exactly! i want to devout myself to my baby.

Answer 1

It is normal for parents to have the ability to obtain $400,000 that will be required to raise the baby before becoming pregnant.

Answer 2

i know what you mean. its the same with me but i think you absolutely need to wait until your older

Answer 3

Its normal for any woman to feel ready to be a mom at any age....its our nature...some women are ready and some aren't thats just life. Although at 16 you should try to let it just be a feeling and not a reality because it is HARD being a teen mother. I know,I was 17 when I had my first daughter and it was rough...not horrible,but things got harder  money wise and things got harder to do.

The feeling is hard to get rid of so don't even try,just know that this is a feeling and try to keep it a feeling for alittle longer until you know you are officially ready to devote your life to someone else and out yourself second in every situation,also you want to be a little stable such as you or your partner has a job(not a millionaire but some kind of income) and you have the patience to raise a baby...because it seems easy to watch a child that belongs to someone else because when its all said and done you get a break from that kid because they eventually go home...this doesn't happen with your own child...its a 24/7 365 days a year commitment.

Think it through and wait a while...Good Luck

Answer 4

u may think ur ready, but mentally, ur not. trust me, wait till u at least have a college or university degree and are married with a husband that wont walk out on u. if u have this baby now and drop out of school, life will be h**l.

Answer 5

Yes its normal but but please wait. Its not an easy job. After the baby is born, it not about you anymore its about your child.

Answer 6

ur very young to have that early feeling of being a mom. u know what its very difficult to have child/ children at a very young age. as to my experience i was married at the age of 19 and got pregnant too soon.. it wasn't that happy coz there so many things i left undone. and i felt so guilty about it. my husband's keep on encouraging me always..

right now, my daughter is 1, yet she's so pretty and very active.evryone's loved her. my advice to you, don't rush things. you'll get there pretty soon. enjoy your single life coz u can't have that anymore when you're gonna be a mom. really it's not easy. being single is like what i missed in my whole life!

Answer 7

When I was in school, there were girls who had babies young but they didn't plan to get pregnant. They just had s*x because their boyfriends wanted to and they wanted to keep them(the guys) in their life. My dear, you may feel the desire to have a baby but PLEASE DON"T DO IT! You'll ruin your life! Yes, you can go to school after the child gets older but you'll have a major burden on your hands-think child care, who will baby sit?, do you or the potential father have money? A good job? Where will you live? Don't do it! You have a future now. Take advantage of your freedom now and finish school. Go to college or a good trade school. Major in a job field that pays very well so that when you have your baby, you'll be prepared. Focus on earning enough money so that if the father isn't around, you can pay ALL your bills by yourself!

Answer 8

this is normal because your maturnal instincts are kikking in dont get yourself pregnant though being a parent is not as fun as you think it might be if you want babysit that helps so you get to see and interact with kids

Answer 9

yes this is very normal. but feeling  ready is not enough you need to finish school have a committed partner who is ready to help you take care of a baby. also a good job to pay for the many baby supplies you will need (babies are not cheap)

Answer 10

well. to tell u that truth. i will be sixteen in october and im 2 months pregnant. although i feel im ready, im probably not. i have no education. and a part time job. but the only way im gonna get throught this is with financial support from my mom and my boyfriend. sooo. if u wanna get pregnant....ok. its ur life. im jus saying even though u feel u are. you might not be. and to answer your question, yes its normal

Answer 11

i suggest you enjoy life first and you really need to think this through..

i mean think about it..if you do get a child..and you date in a few years..no guy would take you seriously knowing that you gave birth at an early age..and seldom would parents approve of their son marrying a single mother...

you won't really get to hang with your friends anymore..you'd be all busy and everything with a baby..

you'll need a stable job that would help you and the baby..you can't always have your parents to support you..

Answer 12

this normal u are at the age when u think u are ready for grown folks responsibilities

Answer 13

simply...your way to young to be a mom...hold off as long as you can

Answer 14

with all the media coverage of teens having babies in hollywood, it's normal to feel the romantized glitz of teen motherhood. the reality is quite different. i am not here to preach at you or discount your feelings. it's admirable that you want to have kids, but it is more important that you plan for them by finishing school and have the ability to support them. teenage motherhood is an uphill struggle. even at 18 i wasnt prepared for it. i'm 33 now and i still wonder and struggle. give your baby the best life possible....wait.

Answer 15

mmm, lol id say its normal, its just maternal kind of thing..i love kids too. But think, if you wait youll be much better prepard to give your baby the best life you can.

Answer 16

Yah its normal, But wait k?? your 16, your still in highschool and you need to build your life before you can start a new one.

Answer 17

Young wemon always dream about having a child that is completly normal. Just try to wait.... but if you can't..... I support you...

Spread the Peace.

Answer 18

Sadia, it's called 'your bioligical clock', and yours is ticking loudly.  You are still going through some seriously maddening changes in your thought processes, as well as changes that are still going on in your body.  You are completely nornal feeling this way.  Yor hormaones are still surging back and forth, and it's very confusing at times.  I won't insult you or just give yuo fluff; I well know how serious this time in your life is.  I reember those nights when I thought that I would just disappear and no on would notice, how the guy i jsut met would be fun to be with...and hen hating hte thoughts because the ywere driving me crazy.  I'm 24, and I am looking at sharing my BF's last name very soon.  Even now, after all th years i had to go trhough the changes, I amd STILL having those moments when I think i am going to go bonkers if i can't wait to start a family with him.  Ou rule is unti lwe say I do, we DON'T..  Yes, it's normal, but hang in there, you have plenty of time after your  schooling is done to think about a family.  BTW, cold showers do NOT always work, and a lot of the time they have hte opposite effect.  :)

Answer 19

Its normal.

But don't go getting yourself pregnant, raising a child isn't as fun as you think.

Answer 20

It's actually pretty normal to want to be a mother. That is what we women are created for. The stability in life it requires to be a mom though is very serious and not something to be overlooked. I think it's cute that you want to be a mom and commend you for that. I would definitely recommend getting married before having children though, to a man who will work and provide for the family. This will help you feel stable and also will help you be more finacially secure.

Children are a big investment of time and money! But the rewards of course outweigh all of that. I personally got married young at 19 but my husband is everything I could ask for and more. We are having a child soon and I'm glad he's by my side every step of the way instead of doing it alone.

Don't be afraid to be a mom! That's what you're predesigned for! It's wonderful, but don't rush it either. You want the best life you can provide for your child so don't give him/her anything but the best!

Answer 21

Do u like partying/hanging out with friends/chilling/having a social life?

When u answer my question I'll answer yours.

Answer 22

It's normal

If you think you want to be a teenage mom and you can handle all the beings of being a mother than go for it. But i suggest you wait till you at the legal age and get your friends opinions.