i am reali confused when i found out i was pregnant, i hadnt long split up with my long term ex, and at first i thought he was the father,so i told every1 he was, and it made it easier for the family to come to terms with it, i am 33 weeks pregnant, and from the ultra sounds, i know hes not the father, he wants a dna test, but i dnt know how to tell him that hes not the father after ive told him all this time that he was? and how do i go round get a dna test? when i found out, that my ex wasnt, i thought it could of been a lad i went out for a couple of weeks, when me n my ex split up, i told him hes a possibitily, but hes said he doesnt want to know, either way. but ive been having a look at when i was meant to have concieved, and it works out that it could be a one night stand i had with an old family friend how has a girlfriend, and hes advised me not to haveany dna tests done because the truth will come out about me and him at christmas, but a couple days later i started seeing sum1 else and i slept with him.
i normally using protection no matter what but all the times i slept with these 4 people i was drunk, i know its no excuse and im shamed of myself, i darent tell my family, im a shamed myself, so i darest to think what they would think. i dont even know what to do, ive been told not to think about it, because of stressing the baby out, but ive tryed not to an ive done reali well up2 now, but as it gets closer and closer i just cant seem to hold the anxiety back. if any one can advise me please
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