Im really nervous to go to high school, help please!

Question

Im not the friendliest person and i tend to be really judgemental and i notice everything bad about people and I have a thing about fat and ugly people i wont really talk or be friends with them. I need to be able to make friends better scince im going to a different school then my friends. Also just any tips in general and anything about your freshman year.

Answer 1

It's just like Middle School except 10 times more dramatic, geeze.

Just smoke moar pot and you'll be okay.

Answer 2

Don't focus all on looks!

Answer 3

dont worry the first days fine, im ten times more nervous because im moving into anoyher school,in year 9 :S

Answer 4

Ok heres what you do.

Make a list in your mind of all the bad stuff you do... ready? AND DO THE OPPOSITE.

Come on, you don't need to put this on the internet, very easy to be.. nice.

Answer 5

High school isn't really all that bad if you stick to your studies. Think of it as starting a new class. Everyone is nervous and on edge.

Just lighten up on the people you deem fat and ugly. You could be fat and ugly to somebody, and that would make you feel like c**p, right?

So, lay off and things will be fine.

Answer 6

High school is a big playing ground of competition to get into a good college. Every grade matters, even your freshman year because all colleges look at your averaged gpa from 4 years. I would join a lot of clubs and be involved in the community. Colleges like people who are not only well educated by well rounded.

Don't stress your self out to much the first year, but I recommend taking ap classes to boost your gpa and maybe classes from community colleges during the summer in your sophomore and junior years.

Study well for the SAT and you will have a good life ahead of you!

Don't get to caught up in high school drama or hang out with the wrong people. And party smart!

And realize that everybody is as nervous as you are. I am sure that not a single freshman feels completely confident! Be nice and talk to the people who you want to make friends with. Tell them about yourself and ask them about themselves, figure out what you have in common! That is how friendships work. You will never be friends with someone who you have nothing in common with... what will you talk about then?