Im really quiet in class but loud vry where else!!?

Question

Im really quiet in class but loud vry where else and ppl think that im really shy. ive been really quiet for 2 yrs now and im scared if i start to be loud ppl will think i hav problems or sumthin!! im naturally loud so if u tell me to be myself i would b loud!!

what should i do?

Answer 1

Being quiet is generally a good thing. Like, the teachers and students don't get really pissy at you. However, if you want to appaear less "shy" don't suddenly get really loud, kinda... gradually get louder. Like, whisper to your friend. Or, when you're supposed to be doing work, carry on a conversation. Just don't start screaming randomly. =P

Answer 2

Hey! I'm the same too. I'm quiet in class, but loud when I'm with my friends somewhere else. I think the reason is that in class, mostly what you do is learn, so there's really no time to show or express yourself. However, when you're outside, you feel more free and start to express yourself more. It's up to you though. If you feel like you don't want to be quiet anymore in class, then start being loud, trust me, people won't even say anything about it. Remember though, always be yourself. Good luck!