Im really worried about this right now, should i be?????

Question

I have a very good friend who i've known for about 7 months now. We talk pretty much every day through either texting or MSN or something. Im a guy she's a girl.(Not that it matters) We've hung out a bunch of times and used to talk at school.We recently graduated.I've been to her house3-4 times now and she's been to mine a couple times,and we've even partied a few times.We've talked to each other a couple times when one of us is feeling upset about something and the other's pretty much always makes the other feel better.Im sometimes the first person she'll talk to when something happens. She'll text me when she's bought something she really likes, or when she goes for a job interview or when she gets a job. Or even on her lunch breaks when shes at work. Things like that. She's come to me when she's had a problem and i've usually helped. We've told each other stuff about ourselves that we wouldn't just tell anyone.She does have a best friend that she's known for about5-6years now.She's her number one like their pretty much sisters.To my knowledge the only people she really ever hangs out with alone is her other best friend and myself.I know because i usually talk to her every day ask what's up. I do all kinds of nice things for her and always listen when she has a problem or just wants to talk. The thing is she's going to college in like 2 weeks, pluse she works. Im scared that once she goes to college she will forget about me and we won't hang out or talk as much as we do now. That she will make new friends and they will replace me. She'll hang out with them and not me anymore. Should i be worried or not?????

Answer 1

No if you work the same place but in diffent places you have to see her a little and she is not moving out of town or anything and you do have her number and all that

She might make new friends but if you stop talking to her she might stop talking to you

Nothing to worrie about invite her to a party or over your house and keep in touch

nothing major is going to change  

Answer 2

She will probably make new friends and expand her circle. But if you guys are truly as close as you say...there's nothing to worry about.

Just expand your own circle and when the time comes you guys can overlap your people.

Answer 3

your not going to be far from her. since shes your friend and is that close to you then she won't forget about you as soon as she gets there. she'll still call you. tell her how you feel about that. its okay to be worried.

Answer 4

If you talk about everything, you should talk to her about how you feel.  I don't see how she could forget about you; after all, you have known her for a while and really bonded in many ways.  Some may say you are like a b/f to her.   There is no question that college life presents many changes and opportunities.  The fact that it is the local college does not mean that you can't make a greater effort to see her.  She will go through changes.  That's part of growing up, however. you need to tell her how you feel after you figure out how you feel about her.  

Answer 5

Maybe..she will be meeting new people and she will be busy with school work....you will have to take it one day at a time or take your relationship to another level like BF/GF!

Answer 6

You have a right to worry, but if that happens, you have to accept it. There are other people in the world that you can be friends with.

Answer 7

dude calm now wow to me it sounds like u to have a thing for each other of course shes not just goin to forget about u she might not have as much time on her hands like she dose now but thats about all she wont forget u after all u two been though sounds like u 2 should b more then friends to me dont worry about it at all she always have time for u us girls cant just kick a guy like that out of our lifes for no reason at all she will still talk n etc with ya ight so no clam down dont worry about it at all ight

Answer 8

the best way is to keep in touch with her by calling or texting. besides she's not going somewhere FAR! you worry too much i guess probably because you've never been this close to a girl before?

stop worrying and enjoy life!

Answer 9

I think that it's normal to be worried about that type of thing.  You two sound like you have a great friendship and bond so I wouldn't be worried about it too much :) especially since it's a local college, you'll still see each other!

Answer 10

It is human nature to get concerned about change. Every time life changes for you or someone close to you, you can't help but wonder if that change will have a negative consequence. Right now, it is not unnatural for you to get concerned with your good friend going to college, but if this friend is truly a really good friend then your care for each other should keep you two friends for life and she wont replace you. Understand though that people change and you might not stay friends forever. It sounds like you will still be pretty close even after your friend goes to college. If your extremely worried then talk to her. Tell your friend that you are afraid of losing her friendship. I've been in the same position before. You"ll learn to adjust to the change. Good luck!!    

Answer 11

you should be worried. BUT i suggest do something special for her. something she never experienced. that way she'll never forget you. good luck! you can do it!

Answer 12

Dear Mr. worried,

   i don't think that she is going to forget about you, she always talks to you, look i have a friend just the same he is a guy i'm a girl I'm a senior in school he just started college monday, we've been close and i thought that he was going to forget me and not ever talk to me again but he still does, we have really gotten closer since this happen, she is allowed to make new friends you know but she will never replace you, you have been there for her how could she forget that? keep txting and hanging out be there for her and support her, that;'s what friends do you know. don't give up hope on her and she will not forget you, best thing you could do is tell her how you feel and she will understand ok

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