Im running away please help?

Question

ok im in h**l i started 7th grade and alot of c**p is happening to me ive gotten to the point werei cutt my wrists and im running away and dont even answer to this if ur not going to help me. i need to know the best things to bring and the best place to go. please help me!!!!!

Answer 1

please stop and take a good look at things. I suggest talking to your parents, if you are not feeling brave enough, please call this hotline, they say :

"Our 24-hour crisis line has an experienced front-line team member ready to help you now. It’s anonymous, confidential and free.

1-800-RUNAWAY"

or visit their website

http://www.1800runaway.org/

please step back, don't runaway, things will only get worse if you do that. open your heart to them and tell them all your problems, they will help you, it is their job.

my brother had problems with cutting his wrists, try organising cousiling, ask your school. I know you don't like it, but please talk to the nurse about it.

if the causes are bullying, please tell someone. good luck, life is good really, just give it a chance, call the phone line.

Answer 2

Umm the best thing to do is not run away. You will end up serving chop suey in a enviornmentally dangerous Chinese take out resturaunt and will live on the streets alone and cold....in a cardboard box.

Answer 3

If you have a relative that you can go to, go there.

Answer 4

Hello,

Stay away from the prostitution part of town, do not be caught down there. The "bad" part of town.

I would think you have no money and don't result to stealing this is no good (then again living on the streets....).

Do not take cell phone, credit cards (anything electronic) these can be traced.

Take good walking shoes, heavy blanket (it gets cold on the streets). No "girly" clothing, keep to stuff that is warm (unless you will be prostituting). Nothing that needs dry cleaning.

If you take medication don't take anything that is life and death, they can track this.

Keep it light, walking with a big pack is like hiking but you will be in the city and more chance of being ripped off, you will experience the worst of society.

Find a shelter and hope you can get on the list for a public bed, do not expect a apt. setting. Get used to taking showers and eating when you can.

It is to late I guess to suggest working with the homeless to see what it is like?

By the way be ready to protect yourself, violence is a way of life on the streets (specially if you do have money on you!!).

Hope you live long, and well.....

Answer 5

well number one i wldnt run away if i were you, i had done it for 2 weeks th first week was fine i was at  a friends but my mum started calling around so my friends parents wldnt let me stay there any longer,also i ran away with my dog, boy was that a bad idea i ended up having to walk 4 hrs back home to drop my dog off, after that i was  homless, i went to th salvos and got to stay in one of there room things for a night but everthing smelt weird and it just made me sick,

i ended up going back home, what i find helps when im depressed is listening to music up realy loud, whats been happening if you dont mind me asking?

Answer 6

RUNNING AWAY IS NOT THE ANSWER YOU MAY NOT WANT TO HEAR THIS BUT THAT IS O.K YOU SHOULD TALK TO YOU GUIDANCE COUNSELOR, PARENTS, OR SOMEONE YOU CAN TRUST AND LET THEM KNOW WHATS GOING ON AND PLEASE!!!!!!!!! STOP CUTTING YOURSELF IT IS NOT GOING TO MAKE THE PROBLEM GO AWAY IT WILL ONLY MAKE THINGS WORSE.  I WISH YOU LUCK. I WILL ALWAYS B HEAR IF YOU WANT TO TALK

Answer 7

I know you dont want to hear this, but running away is horible. Trust me, I know because I did in 8th grade. It is really not cool. I thought it would make everything better, but it only got worse. You need to think of all of the good things in life, like having a place to sleep and your family. Trust me, you dont want to run away.

Answer 8

Dont...maybe your bein the selfish one....look in the mirror i bet you dont have it that bad...remember a problem shared is a problem halfed...maybe you need to talk to someone about this.try your counsellos in school...THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE TO HELP

Answer 9

ok sorry but the first person you need to go to is GOD. he loves you and dosent want to see you thow your life away. whatever your going through he can help. give your problems to him there is nothing he cant do.

Answer 10

You shouldn't run away...I'd advice you to talk to ur parents and tell them what ur going through and have them go with you to family counseling, but if that's not an option, stay w/close relatives and/or friends, or u can also check out the links below so you find other alternatives that may help you

Answer 11

Being a teenager poses a huge list of new issues in your life, not to mention changes that can make it seemingly even more impossible to cope with.  Cutting may feel like a relief...I know, but the truth is the scars that are left...lead to even more difficult situations, and painful mementos.  Running away, is not the solution...no matter how horrible life seems.  It looks simple in the movies, but in reality-it's tough.  All alone you have to learn to steal, to live, and to cope.  Nobody will be there to aid you.  Even better, the amount of trouble you will get in with the police.  After your parents report you as run away-you record becomes scarred with deliquency...leaving you at risk for house arrest and other consequences??  Now, do you really want run away with the possibility of being locked in your house- not being able to escape unless always supervised by a guardian??  Trust me on this- I have been there, allow time to take its course...life throws pain but it also tosses love.  Find someone to talk to, a friend or cousin even, you'll never believe how much in common they may have with you.

Answer 12

why are you going to run a way?   why dont you stay with a friends.   if you are having trouble at home.  talking to friends might help.  i really cant think of any thing ealse.

Answer 13

money,cell phone,clothes,food,a blanket,

you need somewhere to stay before leaving.

have a plan of where you want to go.

dont forget to leave a note for your parents before you leave.

i know i shouldnt be helping you but i am concered for your safety.

it sounds like you eed alot of emotional support right now.

if you dont feel able to talk to your parents talk to your friends or a teacher you trust in school.

or maybe a relative.

whatever you do talk to someone you trust for help and advice.

they may even be able to sort out whatever problems you need.

dont act irrationally.and be safe.no prostituting for money.no robbing,crime or drugs.

if you find a guy to stay with no or safe s*x.

please be careful,there are alot of rapers and murderers in the streets.

Answer 14

Let's see. You posted this question so I'm of the opinion that you're not running away but you're running to. You want to run to someone who'll listen and help with working these problems out. So, we must make this trip as short as possible. Maybe you have an aunt or uncle, a grandmother or father, a school teacher or counselor, a friends mother or father, a priest or pastor, maybe a policeman, or a neighbor maybe Jesus but someone who you can say to them, " there are things going on and I need to talk to someone who'll listen." There are several things you'll have to take. Patience, belief, willingness and understanding are some of the important things to take. There are many waiting in the wings to help solve any issues you might have. Make a move soon. Life on the street is cold, uncaring, and dangerous very very dangerous and home seems to be so far away.

Answer 15

I don't know your whole situation, but running away probably isn't the best answer. I am old (50) and I ran away when I was your age (jr high and high school really sucked).  It was a big mistake.   People take advantage of you, you get into trouble that can be avoided.  I went back home because I got pregnant.  My sister ran away too, she never finished high school and never got any kind of a job that amounted to anything later in life, she ended up in juv det, then later got into drugs because all the people she hung out with did that.  

The best things to bring - money, id, clothes, makeup, your favorite items, maybe a picture of your family because even if you hate them you will miss them, phone numbers of people that matter.  Go to Planned Parenthood and get the pill, because you will end up having s*x with someone - don't get pregnant like I did.  I hope you are smarter than I was.

Please talk to a school counselor, go live with an aunt, get some help.  This will s***w up your life.

I hope things work out for you.  Good luck.

Answer 16

Go to the bank and tyake out money from your bank account and get money from ur account! And don't be emo and go off the deep end to where u cut ur rist that is sooo and wayyy bad!!! So when u get the money use some for a bus or a train and some for food and some for a hotel!!!!!

GOODLUCK!!!!

Answer 17

You need to get in touch with your school counselor immediately. Running away when you are under 16 is not even feasible since you will not be able to hold a job. There are places in your community that can help you and I hope that you seek it. At your age if you run away without some sort of assistance will only get you into prostitution/drugs/etc.

Answer 18

yeah i used cut myself and yeah...its not cool...it just ends up all bad...now the running away part cant tell you wat to do there....and this is a boy...im this girls friend so yeah.

Answer 19

just remember this....someone is always with u if you want Him to be...ask God for help....I promise that it will change ur life......get help from other people too....running away isn't going to solve ur problems, no matter what they are....

Answer 20

ok i've ran away twice in the past year... Its not a good idea, trust me. It does not solve anything at all, it just causes more problems... Talk to your parents about how you feel. Your to young to be throwing away your life like that.

Answer 21

dont run away, where will you go? you might get killed or worse! why not just go to a friends house at least. if you go you must go to a hostel taht is safe and you will have to pay money to stay there. staying on the streets you are asking for trouble. hoestly i dont want to hear a girl has been killed and left in a ditch. dont be silly. explore all other avenues first before running away. send me a message and i will give you more advice!

Answer 22

Don't do it running away won't make anything better...where do you think you will sleep at night? How will you get food? Come on use your brain...things may be bad but they will get better...

Answer 23

tell someone.

Answer 24

well just a note but when you leave be sure to leave a note for your parents so they don't think you got ubducted by some nutcase.

you could try 2 go to a friend's house or just take a bus and go someplace you don't even know. Bring money and food and cloths and a little something from your room to make you feel safe. You'll need it

Answer 25

ummm, bring lots and lots of money!!!

Answer 26

It sounds like life has gotten out of control for you.  I'm so sorry sweetie.

Please contact these people and they will help you get where you need to go.

http://www.1800runaway.org/youth_teens/y...

www.girlsandboystown.org/hotline/index...

Answer 27

speaking from experience, it is very dangerous out there  and i think there are better ways to resolve your issues, there is counseling and social services out there that are available.....please dont do it....i remember all the times i ran away as a kid, and it never worked, and i remember one time, getting picked up and almost molested by a greasy old truck driver, please think hard about this...if you are in abusive or neglectful home contact your school counselor.....i am telling you you will regret it if you run away...please get help before you even consider running

Answer 28

take it a bit easy.dont think that everything is over.Every human being on this earth has some problems or the other.dont jump to such decisions of running away.if you are living with your parents then you are the luckiest person on this earth.never think your parents are against you,what they say or prevent you from doing is for your good.talk to them,tell them your problems.if they cant solve your problems then no one can.the world outside is very harsh,you cant rely on anyone out there.you will realize this when you actually run away.you will have money problems etc.No one is going to give you even a piece of bread if you dont have money.Dont put pressure on yourself.Think positive and whatever you have be happy with it.Man has a tendency to take things he/she has for granted,its value is known only when it is gone.Running away wont solve anything,it will just complicate things for you.You may even die,so please dont do such a stupid thing and talk to people.Sort out things and learn to respect whatever you have.

Answer 29

a change of clothes some kind of id school or birth certificate and social security card a sleeping bag and all the money that you have you can collect cans on the side of the road for extra money so maybe a trash bag. some books to read and head to some where warm good luck and your welcome for the star

Answer 30

ok.....the same thing happend to my freind in the 8th grade...and its is not a good idea at all..the cops got involved and it turned out horrible!!!!

DON'T DO IT!

Answer 31

oh my no dont do any of that. i my self started 7th grade in 2007. it was sorta tough for me at first but my friends help me through it. I had my diffuculties too because I had dated one guy that i had to breakup with cuz we went to different schools, i loved him. then i went out with a new guy a few months later and when we broke up he spread rumors about me cheating and 2-timing and even worse my ex-friend did so too. my best friend since kindergarden and i had to fight the that battle and it took 2 months. I was so happy to move on from it all and now i go back out with the one i dated before cuz weno how to make it work. My teachers were hard but i wasable to figure them out and behave differentways in those classes, they were all different. But what idont get is why U are so angry, add some additional details and then it will be more clear.  

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