Im sacred to go back to school...please help!

Question

ive been bullied allot cuz im from italy. there are 3 groups of girls who pick on me all the time cuz there crush likes me, i can't help it that he does. it got really bad one time that the school had to get involved cuz the girls vandalized my books.

My summer holiday is nearly over and im so upset because i have to go back and face them.

They are making me feel bad about my country.

no one else at my school is from the same place as me so i feel like an out sider.

could someone give me advice and something to keep me strong?

sorry if my english is not good.

please help

Answer 1

you should go out with the guy to make the girls jealous and if thet say sumtin to u just comeback at them by tellin them like well im dating (insert guys name here) because he likes me more then yall.

Answer 2

u should be proud of were u come from and what u are and dont let no one NO ONE  telli u eney different u need to stand up to these girls and makesure they no that ur not going to sit back and let them get away with thiss!! show them that ur not ashamed to be from italyy just stick up for urself and dont show them ur scared.. if this doesnt work then get the skool involved and make sure all of this bullying and racism stops because that wat it is "RACISM" and it can be taken very seriosuelyy u could even get the police involved because of the racism..! good luck and dont be scared.x

Answer 3

your not alone so many kids get picked on if they just moved here

sometimes it goes away cause ur not new to the school anymore. i know everyone says to ignore them but my advice is to make some friends and  they probably will be to embaressed to get in ur way or if they say something mean give them a dirty look and look away

Answer 4

i know what u mean.

i'm black and i go 2 an all white school.

there are around 1000 kids at my school.

around 970 are white and 30 are ethnic e.g black and asain.

i don't get bullied but i feel left out.

be strong and get professional help

good luck =]

Answer 5

get to the gym and get fit; weight train.

get tough, bullies continue to bully those they consider weaker...get tougher.  You will run into people like that all your life.  You will either continue to be the victim your entire life..or you can make a stand now...look your bully in the eye and tell him to bugger off and hold your ground.  Being fit, working out at the gym will give you the confidence.

You might get your parents to keep an eye out for assertiveness training courses in your community or at a local community college or university..and then get on the course...it can serve you well for the rest of your life.

Role play with a sibling, get advice from a sibling, to practice standing up to your bully.

So no to being bullied.

Answer 6

My son had and has this same problem but he moved from one school to another where the schools are serious rivals.  

Remember this quote ( I am Sicilian)  Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

At my sons first school we invited all his bullies to a party and parents were invited too.  No mention of "issues" were brought up I just kept a close eye on the kids and redirected and start of domination.  It worked .'

Again when we moved my son was beat up, ganged up on and bullied.  We had a pool party, invited parents and kids.  Did this a couple times and eventually everyone became comfortable with each other.  No more problems.  My son introduced his interests and differences to these kids and they became interested in and curious thus starting a friendship.  

Dont give up honey,  try a party with parents too. Talk to your parents, if you are from Italy we stand behind each other and are there for each other in time of need.  Try this out and see if it works for you.  Be strong, hold your head high, take a deep  breath and know you are worth it.  Good luck

Answer 7

everyone gets picked on your not alone kids in school are really mean i go so made fun till i ignored it i acted like i dint hear and just walked away or moved seats and you know what they stoped cause they saw it dint bother me and people who talk about other people are just inscure about their selfs