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Im scared about school , not casue of the homewrk but the friends part..:(?

by Guest62316  |  earlier

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I'm terrified of school, its like going back to the h**l hole, because theres so many expectations, and everyones popular, and theres loner groups, and sometimes i dont know were to eat for lunch, sometimes my friends aren't there at school, and im stuck alone.. its so bad..i want to just study my a$s off but how can i when theres so much drama! I have to quit studyin and start taking all of that stress on myself, i dont want to, and its so hard to make freinds which is another problem...it takes so much time for me to talk to someone, and trust me i try my best to make some, but i feell like there never interested in what im talking about, or they never listen and change the topic...im scared of rejection the most.. its just really bad..and i need some advice to make freinds, and to enjoy my hishschool years, casue im never going to get them back:'(

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  1. you think that you are alone in this but imagine how many other kids there are at your school who are in the same predicament. being scared of rejection is something so minuscule. if you don't open up and allow yourself to be approached no one will! make small talk with people. soon enough you will find someone who is interested in the same things as you and soon enough you'll have new friends. you only live once and embarrasment is nothing! don't fear other people, just have fun. and worst case scenario, go to the library for lunch and do your homework that way you wont have to bring home as many books and you won't have hours of home work to do. good luck


  2. The point of high school is mosty to get you ready for college. The enjoyment part is secondary. It may be unpleasant to be alone, but guess what, popularity isn't gonna get you a job later. The popular kids aren't the ones who end up getting the best opportunities later on in life. Focus on your studies, and see if there are activities in school you enjoy about (sports, art, music, chorus, speech and debate, photography, culture or environment clubs just to name a few, or start one yourself). And if its real lonely, bring a book with you.  

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