Im scared about this?

Question

im scared im 13 weeks prego. i got prego on birthcontrol and it messed wit my periods and they were off every month so i didnt relise i was prego till 3 weeks,i figured the birth control was doing its usual thing(by my period being irrgular)i was wrong.so i was still going to the bars and drinking (not knowing i was prego)as soon as i found out i stop drinking.@ 3 weeks.should the baby be ok?anyone else been in this postion?thanks to all Mature answers.

Answer 1

Often, women do not realize that they're pregnant and continue risky behaviors.

Make sure you're taking vitamins and don't get uber stressed about this.

I believe your baby will be just fine.

Good luck with your baby!

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Answer 2

I have to take two drugs, one for high blood pressure and one for insulin resistance, both are harmful to the unborn baby. I was 6 weeks pregnant before I found out and during that time I had taken both drugs and been to several parties. My baby was prem (nothing to do with meds or alcohol), but totally perfect.

I also read once that up until around 12 weeks, the baby lives on the nutriants in the egg and not dirctly off the Mother. Whilst this is not an excuse to party until 12 week and then be good, it does give a little 'cover' for what went on before you knew you were pregnant.

You can worry yourself into the ground when you are pregnant, please try to relax and enjoy it. The hardwork really starts when the baby is born!

Answer 3

Chances are that everything will be fine. Lots of women do stupid things without realizing that they are pregnant. I have done them as well.

I took the morning after pill (which is basically birth control pills in a high dose) and I still got pregnant with my eldest daughter. She turned out 100% healthy.

I've also drank alcohol, dyed my hair, and had some x-rays without realizing that I was pregnant and everything was fine.

Now of course, there is always that small risk that some harm could have been done from your drinking. But, I think you should just relax. In every pregnancy things can go wrong. In a lot of pregnancies things go perfectly fine. .

I've also known plenty of women who continued to take birth control in their early pregnancy and nothing happened.

Don't worry about anything unless your doctor gives you a reason to worry.

Good luck and I am wishing you the best!

Answer 4

Many people (including myself) continue drinking before they realize that they're pregnant.  If you look after yourself (no alcohol, healthy diet and so on) for the rest of your pregnancy, your baby will be fine.  Try not to worry.

Answer 5

I would much rather get a abortion that give birth to a defective baby that will live with you the rest of your life.

Plus, think of how you can afford caring for somebody, and what if they found out that it wasnt planned and you drank, and reduced their mental capacity?

An abortion isnt anything major, and doesnt cause much pain, just discomfort.

Do yourself a favor for the rest of your life.