Im scared. i dont know what to do ?

Question

im in middle school and im about to start school and im going to a whole new school . im going to 7th .

and im really scared i dont know how to make new friends.

Like im really shy . but like when your my friend im not shy at all.

but im so scared to enter school and meet new people and walk away like an idoit ?

im so scared ...

what do i do ??

any help

Answer 1

You should find activities where there will be people who have things and interests in common with you.  Perhaps the soccer team, or drama club, or the school paper would be good choices for you.  It's scary but also an exciting time because you get to explore different electives and try new things.  Many people are probably feeling the way you feel... you're not alone.  Just be yourself and try to find people who are interested in the same stuff as you.

Answer 2

I don't know if you're a happy person or not, but try to be happy and let others see that, people like a happy, friendly person. It'll help making friends easier. Maybe say hi to people, ask other people what classes they have, it's a great way to start conversation.

Answer 3

Just be yourself, especially since you can't be anyone else.  Know this, if everyone was honest and would admit it, many of the others there would say that they feel the same as you do.  They are just as scared as you are.  If you give it a chance, you will make new friends before you even know what is going on.  It may take a few days, so be patient and wait for the right moment to arise.  Someone there will approach you and you will become friends.  When it happens, don't be afraid, just go with the flow.  You will then know what to do.