Im scared im going to lose my friends. any advice?

Question

ohkayyy, so this weekend i had to go to my parans and likee my best friend decides she wants to get everyone togetherr and do something. but i can cuz ima be w/ my paran. so they all slept at one girls house and texted me telling me they "havin the funnest night everr." well, i just got homee and i checked their myspaces and im all at the bottom of their top friends, one girl has "with my true best friends" and all kinds of stuff like that. tomorrow, i have to go to school with them and i really dont wanna hear all about it or feel left out. i know i shouldnt be worrying about this, but i am. i just don't know what to do cuz it breaks my heart that they obviously don't love me like i love them. idkk, please give me some advicee?!

Answer 1

talk to them

Answer 2

Aww :(

im sorry i hate when this stuff happens to me.

It happened to me recently.. well something like that

My BESTFRIEND who ive been first on her top for the last like 3 years hung out with our other bestfriend and all of a sudden i looked on her top (cuz they were hanging for like 4 days) and i wasnt first anymore.. i mean im sure i sound lame or maybe even selfish but it was just like rude to me.

& im sorry, hopefully they wont brag !

I hate when that happens.

Answer 3

If these girls are your true friends they wouldn't be doing things to purposely hurt your feelings.Sometimes responsibilities to family comes first.You need more self confidence.If you could lose a friendship because of not being at one sleepover, then realize true friends are never lost,and true friends aren't cruel to each other.Go to school and be yourself,either they like you or not.They may be taking advantage of the fact you like them so much.If they are mean to you find some true friends who won't make you feel left out.

Answer 4

Just because they had a good time without you, it doesn't mean they don't like you or consider you a close friend.  Don't let them know it bothers you and ask you parents if you can host them soon at your house.  Then you will surely be in the midst of the fun!

Answer 5

Well, i had the same incident,

Just let them tell them the story and just be like oh wow, sounds so fun! Say I hope you decide to get everyone together and hopefully i wont be busy :)

Hopefully this helps. ! (:

Answer 6

What's love got to do with it?  Friends can be fickle there one day and gone the next, this round your out but keep fighting and you'll be the one everyone hangs out with soon. Don't look depressed or sad, but try to get into what everyone was doing and just say you wished you were there, butter them up saying they were so lucky to get together.  You kind of have to suck up a bit but just to get back into the group, it's a pack mentality thing!  You'll do fine!

Answer 7

that really sucks.  these girls are extremely immature!  I have known girls like this who think that the more "best friends" they have makes them better people or make sthem feel better about themselves...

they feel more important than you because they got to have fun together and are now trying to rub it in your face that you weren't there.

Best advice...

act as if you dont notice, act with confidence and act as though you had the time of your life without them and that you didn't miss hanging with them at all- then invite them to do something this week.  establish yourself in the group.  the thing is, they probably DO like you, but I am guessing you are in middle school age, and this is just what immature girls act.  you are obviously more mature and confident then these wannabees... they will grow out of it soon enough.