Im scared to work, what can i do!?

Question

i know this sounds weird, but i'm 21.. and i never really worked before.. im starting to feel really crappy about myself, because im 21 and i never worked.

i used to work at my family's restaurant to help out, but my parents goes easy on me.. but im still so slow at everything, and im super clumsy.. and each day after work, i'd feel really bad about my performance.

and now, i feel i should try working out in the real world, but im so scared... of all the strangers, mean customers, and crazy bosses...

how can i overcome this??

and can you share your first work experience with me?

thanks

Answer 1

Just do it.  Most people don't have a choice.  Everybody feels that way the first couple of weeks, then it gets a liitle better.  Start by reading ads until you find one you think you can do.  Then try for it.  

Answer 2

find a sugar daddy to take care of you and you'll never have to work a job for the rest of your life.  problem solved.

Answer 3

once you able to step out of your comfort zone ( or shell ).. you will know what is next. you never step out.. you never know. what so frightening about those customers and bosses etc? what so frightening??? they are humans too afterall. if they are fierce.. show no mercy to them ok.  

Answer 4

my first job was working as a street messenger in New York City

and I hated it

I wish my family had there own business I'd be the boss by now

look you lack social skills you can do several thing make you own business and work for your self or go to collage or work for some one

and find out how mean people can be

clumsiness goes away when you get more confidence and confidence

comes in time

I think you should stay with your parents, you have it made

believe me i would kill to have a family business and you have one

one day you will inherent the family business if not you'll still be working for nice people and that your family and family's stick together

so I'd stay were you are

and whats the special of the day I'll have one

and some pie and a cup off coffee  lol

from  your next client

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