Im shy and cant dance : ) and im sick of it. how can i learn to dance and shake this shyness ?

Question

well in a nut shell, im shy and dont have the confidence to dance unless im smashed , how can you learn to dance normaly like everyone else at a club, i doubt there are places to learn cause its all freestyle or whatever, any ideas ?

Answer 1

go to www.learnclubdance.com iv bought this dvd n its brilliant, theres no hard moves, they've got free previews on the female dvds. and they give you a 14day free trial, these girls are brilliant! I'm 19 n i felt exactly the way you did but i've been do in this dvd for a few months now and every time i got to a club now I'm the first one on the dance floor! they are worth buying. There quick on delivering as well i got mine 2days after i orderd it. xx

Answer 2

Relax and dance with confidence.

And, depending on where you live, they do have classes that teach breaking, popping, etc. You should search it up.

But, I don't think you need classes to learn how to move. Just follow the beat.  

Answer 3

just shake it

dancing is about having fun - not caring what other people say or think

just listen to the music and ........shake

Answer 4

I know the feeling, but just remember not everybody is staring at you. Chances are everybody's just trying to have fun and there's always somebody else who isn't too sure of themselves.

I get this way to, and I'm an actual dancer lol! Ironic hey?

Answer 5

I had exactly the same problem as you, all I used to do was to jump nervously around, which made me look weird. I realized this and then understood that being how I dance usually at home is much more normal and less noticed then being the shy one. So, at the next disco i went to i first watched the other girls dance and then copied them. It felt so much easier and much more fun being free and able to dance how I wanted to. I understand exactly how you feel, and trust me, just let yourself go wild and do what YOU think will match the song!

Answer 6

sounds like you feel that everyone is looking at you. believe me, everyone is not looking at you--don't be so self-absorbed.