Im sick of being treated like a teen mother anyone else in this sit?

Question

I am 19 and graduated two years ago and have been out of my parents house since im married and we planned my pregnancy. and im sick of people looking at me like im some hs s***k who got knocked up my husband has a great degree from a great uni and we are financially stable.anyone else in the same sit

Answer 1

I'm not in that situation.   Some people are so quick to stereotype young mothers.  True not all are single parents  "got caught having s*x".   Keep doing good and stay strong for your family.  One funny side is, you keep living you will grow old.

Answer 2

yea im 18, ill be 19 when my babys born but i defiantly get alot of looks. i ignore them becuase i graduated from HS, and ill be starting my second year of college in the fall (even with a baby)

the only people that look at me like that are strangers and i really dont care about them. there are a million things i could find to stare at them about but i dont, becuase i dont know their situation. the people that i know and that matter to me are so happy for me.

if you are prepared for the baby then congrats and just ignore those people.

Answer 3

me to!! my husband has a degree and i am a stay at home mom!! im 19 but im sure when people look at me they think im 16! we are only 5 years off from havin our nice brick home completely paid off! most people are not able to do that in a lifetime! best of all, we did it with no hand outs from family! it pisses me off sooo bad that people assume because im a young mom, im a bad mom! ugh it burns me up!

Answer 4

Just don't mind them. People who stare or say things  just ENVY you. As long as you are a good wife and a soon to be good mom, then why worry? Just laugh at them and let them die of envy. (Alfred E. Newman sys - "WHAT ME WORRY?") You are YOUNG, enjoy life with your new family.

Answer 5

Unfortunately, a lot of people just suck. I am 10 years older than you, so I don't get looked at like I am young at the best of times, but I can understand where you are coming from. My best advice for you?  Ignore these people, they really don't matter in the grand scheme of things, do they?  You are always going to encounter people who assume things, and treat you like c**p, but like I said, these people?  Not worth your time! You can't make people change, and explaining the situation to them is REALLY a waste of your time.

Answer 6

I'm 23 and expecting my second baby in July. My first baby is 11 months old. I look younger than my age and the last time I went out I actually had a man yell at me for being such an irresponsible teen and called me an unfit mother. I have been married for 2 years and my husband has a great job where my whole family is covered with medical and dental insurance and We have plenty of money so I can be a stay at home mom. Yes, I too am tired of people jumping to conclusions. I usually just tell people I find it rude that they would butt in to someone else's life and they should mind their own business. As to the looks I get I usually just smile and wave.

Answer 7

I'm in the same situation. It's really hard, but you can't let people get to you. You're happy right? It's really sad that some people feel the need to judge everyone else, when they have absolutely no right to. As long as you and your husband are in love, doing well for yourselves, and happy; nothing else matters. Congratulations and good luck!