Im six months pregnant and havent told my boyfriend yet

Question

Should I tell him? Im scared to becaue he is pro choice and Im also afraid he'll hate me because I want to keep my baby.

Answer 1

What???

He is going to be even more mad that you did not tell he sooner and if he is pro choice it is toooooo late now and he is either going to accepted it or not, and if not then you know were you stand and what you are going to have to do! Also if he hates you than that is his problem and maybe he should not be making baby's and practice absence instead or until he is ready to become a father

Tell him that you need to tell him something and it is very hard to do this but.... and i know you are angry about this but you need to think now of what you are going to do stay with me or not or help me support YOUR child even though you might not want it ! It's coming and there is not a choice now

If you can not do it in person than do it by phone like i said if he does not like it then to bad he does not have to deal with it he will just end up having to pay you child support (like many others) and you should not fell guilty about your wonderful unborn child and you being stressed out over it is not helping your baby to begin with!

Answer 2

If you want to keep the baby then well he is GONNA FIND OUT okay, that is if you dont' plan on leaving him of course... but u dont wanna do that, and anyway he will have to help you with the baby, by help you paying for stuff. :)

tell hom NOW!

Answer 3

Just because he's pro-choice doesn't mean he won't want the baby. Once he gets over the shock (and telling him he's going to be a dad in 12 weeks will be a big one) he may surprise you. Either way you should tell him now. He'll need the next 3 months to come round to the idea.

Good luck.

Answer 4

First of all...yes, you should tell him.  He's about to become a father and he has the right to know and prepare.  It really doesn't matter if he's pro-choice or not.  At 6 months along, elective abortions are not performed.

Answer 5

He's going to find out eventually, don't you think?  

Answer 6

Just tell him, if you aren't showing yet then you will be soon. It's too late for you to abort the baby and I don't believe in abortion anyway. You should just try to stay as calm as possible and sit him down and let him know. Let him know that you're sorry that you kept it from him for so long but you were afraid of his reaction.