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Im so confused about this guy?

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so, during the second half of my sophomore year i got to know this guy really well, and we became like best friends then we became a lot closer, and i really liked him and he liked me too, then one night we both went to the club and he and i got REALLY close, we didnt have s*x but we had dry s*x ya know what i mean, and we were holding hands all night and were with each other all night, then we went home and then i went to sleep, then then the last week of school,the week after the club, he told me he was moving to a different school and he was gunna miss me. and we then texted the first month of summer, and then that month i tried to hang out with him a lot, we were guna hang out at the movies, but then he told me he had a girlfriend, and was gunna bring her along, but i just canceled cause i knew if i was with them i would cry cause i like loved this boy, and i had just felt like he forgot about me,then the next two months i didnt even hear from him at all, so i moved on, and i didnt really like anyone for a while, then the night right before my birthday i got a text from him, it was one of those chain letter things, but it said like text me one question that you want me to answer and i cant lie to it, i didnt reply i just forwarded it. then before i was gonna go to bed i got the text and it said ' did you ever like me more than a friend?' and i txtd him back and said yea a lot then asked him the same thing and he said yea towards the end of the school year, then someone else jumped in my life, and the end part of that made feel kinda insignificant, but like does this mean he likes me again and wants to start talking again or did he just wanna know what i thought.

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  1. i think he feels that he did somethin wrong to you, he had a feelin you liked him and he got a girlfriend when he left. he felt guilty and wrong. he probably doesnt wanto be bf and gf he wants to be friends and maybe you guys will go out sometime, he just doesnt wanna leave you behind


  2. Well, to me it sounds kindly like he did have strong feelings for you during that time that yall were hanging out.  When he moved, he couldnt be with you everyday and long distance relationships rarely work out in the end. Most relationships require both of the people being physically around each other alot of the time. When he moved, he found someone he could be with everyday so he sorta let you slip out of the picture. I know that hurts, believe me, i myself have experienced betrayal from someone that i have been really close with and i am sorry that you are feeling it too. But, it sounds like he is still thinking about what both of you had when he was still at your school.  It sounds like he misses the times he was with you.  To me, it sounds like you made a pretty big impact on him if he has another girlfriend but is asking you this all of the sudden.  His current girlfriend my not make him feel like you made him feel and you have been on his mind. He probably still has feelings for you and is curious to see if he impacted you like you did him.  That does not necessarily mean that he is looking for a relationship with you again, but then again it could be that very thing.  Im no mind reader, so id be afraid to say what he wants, but i can tell you that you are still on his mind. If he keeps texting you periodically, then he may want something more, but if he finally quits again, then he has probably moved on for good.  If you go a long time without hearing from him, then he texts all of the sudden like he did this last time, then if i were you i would tell him to stop because that would keep bringing up the bad feelings that you have had to feel and you do not deserve that.  You should find you another guy that goes to school with you and that could be there for you.  That is my opinion so hope ive helped alittle. Everything will turn out fine.

  3. he probably feels guilty

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