Im so depressed and i miss my fiancee. he has a full time job and we dont live together so now what?

Question

i use to be able to see my boyfriend before and after work and on our days off, because we both had a part time job. But now i still have a part time job and he has a part time job on top of a full time job. So now we only have one day off completely together once a month. Which really sucks. Cause now all i do is sit and watch tv or sleep. I have nothing to do. What do i do? I'm Board and i have nothing to do ... and I REALLYY MISS MY BABY!!!

Answer 1

See if you can surprise him on his launch Break!

Text messages are always good to keep in touch with someone when u miss them!

You guys has to make time for each other!

Answer 2

Get another job, get a hobby, get together with friends and family, get back in school.  You can't just pine away for him all day long that is not healthy.

Answer 3

You need to get a hobby, or some more friends. Or a full time job? If he is working this much, this is the time for you to be working a lot too (save money for the wedding??) Trust me, absence makes the heart grow fonder. But beyond that, don't ever depend on a guy to keep you busy. You need to have your own life...you need to learn how to keep yourself occupied. I know you are BORED but you will figure it out. And this is good practice for real life, when you both have jobs, and a family. Time together is sparce.  

Answer 4

Its good that you don't live together until you are married.

Perhaps you should get a full time job yourself or get back in school to help you find a better full time job.

Answer 5

I think you need a hobby.  My fiance and I are often busy and see each other a couple hours like 2-3 times a week.  Before, he was even busier and it was like once a week and sometimes not even that.  I found it important to find ways to keep myself happy and productive when he wasn't around to avoid moping.  Also, going out with friends is nice.  Also, if you do stuff on your own, it makes seeing him more interesting since you have things to talk about.

Answer 6

Welcome to the real world! Maybe you should get a full time job too. It will help pay for the wedding and the life you start together.

Answer 7

I feel your pain, I can't see my partner until November! We make do with texting, phone calls and email. But it's not the same.

I'm guessing you guys don't live together. If you did then you'd be able to see him before and after work so it wouldn't be as bad. Just text him lots, send him cute emails, and make the most of that one day a month you have together =)