Im so nervous about high school? How can i be less nervous? im in panic!?

Question

OK. So i have really low self esteem and confidence. Im starting grade 9 which is high school. the high schools also in a different town. Im soooo nervous because i only know one person whos going there too and shes my best friend. But im not good at talking to new people. Its a really big high school and theres lots of different people there. Im scared that people will be mean. And im nervous about going to gym class because in my prevous school people are so competive and yell when i make a mistake. Any tips? please!!! it would make me less nervous and more confident! ill give points to the answer that helps me most! :-)

Answer 1

Well for the first day of school, make sure you have everything ready, I know when I am physically organized I am mentally organized. Make a list of things you will need, and what you need to bring. Also, just know that everyone is in your shoes. They are just as nervous and want make a good impression too. Keeping those things in mind might help settle your nerves. Besides who ever said high school was easy? If you are organized for the big first day it might make the adjustment a little easier. Just keep calm and cool and know that it will get easier.

Answer 2

Try not to worry or stress about high school! Remember that all of the students in 9th grade will be new to high school, and there will be other students who don't know many other people. Most people will probably be nice. They'll be a little nervous too, what with new classes and teachers and so much to learn! If you just smile and are friendly when people talk to you, I'm sure they'll be nice too.

I recommend joining some after-school clubs or student organizations if you can. Clubs are a great way to meet students outside of class, and you'll make friends who have some similar interests!

Finally, tell yourself that you can do it. Calm down your nervousness by acting in a confident manner.