Im so unhappy what can i do?

Question

im 17 and it seems like i cant remember the last time i was happy. I work out alot and feel like i have a good body but im still unhappy. I try to hang out with people but it seems like i dont really like any of them. I smoked weed and drank beer only because they did but really it just made me more unhappy. I find a girl and we start dating but all she ever did was want to party and i felt like i was never happy with her but now she ended up ditching me for another guy and that just made me even more unhappy. It just feels like theirs no way for me ever to be happy like theirs no point i should live. I have never thought about killing myself or anything but im just so tired of being unhappy i cant stand it. Will i ever be happy or am i doomed to live with unhappyness?

Answer 1

go were you can meet new people, go to a nightclub, join a website were you can make friends, get a date ( you know you can't be unhappy with one), get something you really want, track down one of your childhood friend (such a thrill to see a friend grown up), get a pen-pal (nobody to hang out

with where you live try somewhere else), plant a garden (sounds stupid i know), Make a book and write down all of your unhappyness to get it out of your system, Open up (don't be shy), chat in a chatroom, Do something creative, Make yourself laugh by taking funny pictures or get a video camera and make a comedy (see you can have fun on your own), Play an insterment then start playing in a group, Get outta town!, Play a sport, do anything!!

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Your just looking for happiness in the wrong place thats all!

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Answer 2

i think you have to accept yourself. and look for a hobby you like. maybe a sport. and do your best. i think you need to go on a soul searching thing.

Answer 3

Until you start looking for happiness inside of you, you will never find it. Happiness is not in parties, people, weed, girlfriends, or anything else under the sun.  It is the work you do in your head, thinking and feeling what makes you happy. At 17 you have many years to find the answer.

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Peace.

Answer 4

You`re at your teens. Many peoples have different experiences. While I was at 13, I always thought of committed suicide. Because I was not good at all compared with others.

I was weak and struck by this or that illnesses.

One day, I met an old kid asked if I would like martial arts from him. That old man thin and bony. He looked like he had more problems that I did.

Once I learned his martial arts I gradually knew more about me and the nature and peoples` around. Never take any drugs or drink like drunken dunken.

They only bring you more damage.

Might be pick up something that you like to do. Respect your close friends, perhaps, they can give you some ideas

I wish you best of luck!

Answer 5

some of my suggestions;

1)unhappiness is in your mind. have you heard of the power of the mind?start thinking positive from now on. like everyday you woke up you said to yourself, "i will be happy today".  

2)actually, i have been unhappy like you but, only less serious. what i did is go to church and make friends there. i believe there are a lot of nice people in the church.  make friends with those people are so much fun. believe me. hint*find a girlfriend there

3)if u really want a nice girl to be your girlfriend, you should not be unhappy so fast after only a failure, go for it even harder after every failure. that is the key to success....

4)take up a hobby/ sports/ activities that u like. it helps....

trust me...you will be happy in no time...keep smiling : )

Answer 6

You are still young with a bright future ahead of you. It seems things have not been going well for you at the moment but we all have times of unhappiness.

I would suggest that you find a new group of friends, people that share your interests.

Things will get better, in the meantime keep your head up and I am sure that if you look hard enough you will find that you have plenty to live for.    

Answer 7

only you can answer that, dude!

instead of finding the negative in EVERYTHING, think bout the positives!

i mean the girl ditching you, turning that into positive would be like, you were saved from being cheated by her and she was NOT good for yah!!

i know that you've got tough stuff in ur life, BUT YOU'RE ONLY FLIPPIN 17!!!

don't worry buddy, there will be situations, where you will wish that ur 17 year old problems would return instead of these.

dude, you got a WHOLE life ahead of yah!! TAKE EVERYTHIG INTO POSITIVE and you'll be happy!!

FIND THE POSITIVE!!

Answer 8

Try to hang out with new people. if that doesn't work spend some time with your family. i went down to visit my cousin for two weeks and after that i felt like a new man haha. we had so much fun off the dumbest things. like playing monopoly, poker, watching nascar Etc. just spend some time with family, that's all. or with friends if that doesn't work, or if all else fails, go to see a movie haha.

Answer 9

don't do things you don't like just because someone else is doing it

don't constantly do things you hate

find a hobby

find something that will make you happy

try with cooking and with something productive

set some goals in life

find other friends and talk to your parents and be friends with them

or maybe you just don't know how to enjoy