Im so worried about swimming lessons at school?girl?

Question

I am lets say fat and we have to wear a one peice swimming costume but all the other girls are skinny! i dont want you to try and change my mind about the way I look because nothing anyone says will change the way i think about my body! because i only want a solution for this and also another thing my period is normally 28 days apart and 5 days long but this one is 21 days after the last one and it has been going for a week

im freaked

Answer 1

ignore that. don't be sick - you can't wimp out of things everytime you are scared or worried.

Be confident in yourself. If you look confident, no one will realise that your worried about how you look. Stick with your friends, and if anyone says anything, don't let it get to you. You said yourself, nothing anyone says will change the way you feel about yourself.

As for the period - don't stress hun, just wear a tampon and no one will even know!

Good luck!!! xx

Answer 2

just be sick on that day, or 'forget' your bathing suit

Answer 3

hey dont worry im sure you will be ok who wants to be skinny anyway

go to the swimming and let everyone see ur not bothered about it

Answer 4

Firstly, stop comparing yourself to other girls.

If you feel you are 'fat', you can easily do something about it.

As for the periods, you can either use a tampon or ask your mum to write you a note excusing you from the lesson.  

Answer 5

You should be excited! Swimming is exercise and exercise helps you stay healthy. Get in the water and enjoy yourself!!!

Answer 6

Just be happy with the way you look! The bigger you are - the more there is to love. lol. And cos you have irregular periods it means that you have excuses to get out of doing swimming, just get your mum to write a note. hope i helped x