Im sooo scared im going to miscarry.?

Question

i never miscarried before, but im just scared i am. ill be 3 months in a few weeks, but miscarrage can happen at any time... anything to ease my mind?

Answer 1

once you hit 12 weeks your chances are slim to none..good luck

Answer 2

yes, they happen. but actually, the younger you are and the more prenatal care you receive, the more likely you are to have a very healthy baby. =). if it does happen, miscarriage is a part of nature. usually something is wrong with the baby when there is a miscarriage, like a severe defect. in my opinion, sometimes it is better if the baby is miscarried instead of living through something terrible. but younger people have healthier babies. just stay positive, don't stress, and everything will be fine.

Answer 3

Don't worry about it so much! Otherwise you're just going to cause yourself a lot of stress that you don't need! Hah. When you're past 12 weeks you're at a "safe point" where miscarriages are less likely to happen. Be more optimistic and just be happy that you have a baby! :DD

Answer 4

Oh sweetie, try not to worry so much. It is scary, I know. Most miscarriages do occur in the first thirteen weeks, but there is always some risk in any pregnancy, right up until the end. We just can't let ourselves focus on that. Positive energy makes us stronger. Negativity only weakens us and begins to affect us physically after awhile. Pregnancy loss is the exception to the rule; most pregnancies run their course just fine. Try to look at everything about your pregnancy that's wonderful. You are at the end of the first trimester already, you are getting good prenatal care, you are taking good care of yourself, and there's a miracle growing in your belly! You have every reason to believe that you are going to have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby.  I wish you all the best.

Answer 5

16 years old and having a baby. So I guess us people who have a job will be supporting this baby of yours. Grow up.

Answer 6

When you say meds, do you mean vitamins?  Anyhow, the doc can pick up the heartbeat with a doppler at 9 weeks, so it sounds like you are right in that time frame.  Book an appt to put your mind at ease...other than that, just rest!  The stress isn't good for you or your baby.

Good luck!

Answer 7

what the h**l are you doing pregnant at 16? buy an xbox and get a puppy.

Answer 8

You will be okay. If you can make it to 13 weeks then you will be in your second trimester. Once your second trimester starts you should feel a little bit better. Everything will be okay. Rest, read a lot, talk to your baby, begin to pray if you haven't started already. I was so scared. I've had 2, but the one that lived was the scariest of all. If all else fails tell yourself that everything happenes for a reason. Just stay calm and count everyday as it happens. Before you know it you'll be holding your baby..... Or wishing it would come out.......then 12 mos. later wanting to put it back in........ then 20 years later wanting it to get out of your house!

Answer 9

I felt the same way for a while. Just relax, if your doing exactly what your doctor has told you then youll be fine. Just as long as your past the 12 week mark thats when you can stop worring as much. Im 31 weeks and I worry about my baby constantly. Just relax your baby will be fine.

Answer 10

I wouldn't worry about miscarrying, I would worry if my baby was getting the prenatal vitamins and seeing the doctor on a regular bases. If you have no history of someone in your family having miscarriages then I wouldn't worry. Your going to make yourself sick and it's not good for the baby to worry. Just keep thinking about how beautiful this baby is going to be when he or she arrives!

Congradulations

Answer 11

just think if everything goes right you'll have a beautiful baby

Answer 12

wow..you sound pretty excited about this baby! good for you... it doesn't sound like you're going to abort. very very good. don't worry about it. just do as much as you can to keep yourself healthy!