Im sort of a clutz, and my bf wont let me out of his sight!!!?

Question

im 16. me and my bf have been going out for about a year and a month or two.

i sort of have a habit of hurting myself (by accident. im not emo or something)

im just a clutz

so far, ive broken lik 10 bones and dislocated my shoulder a few times. and got concussions twice.

ever since my last distaore (i fell down a flight of stairs and fell out of the window. i was in the hospital for about a month. it was the 1st floor), my bf hasnt let me out of his sight. he follows me everywhere now, and carries all my stuff and tries 2 help me with everything i do!!

i guess hes just worried about me hurting myself again, but its really annoying!!

im not complaining about it, i think its sort of sweet, but i need some air!!

how do i tell him that i love him and its really sweet that he worries about me, but i need 2 breath once in a while?

help??

Answer 1

jus tell him that you love him aand that u need to breathe that u will try to me more carefull but that you need to breathe and that u feel as if he is sufficating u when he does this but that u still love him and that u still want to be with him!!!! Cause if you dont one dai u wontt be able to take it anymore and u will explode and that would be very hurtfull towards him!!

Answer 2

Tell him that...And your parents should put you in a bubble. Your a danger to yourself and others.

Answer 3

tell him exactly what you just told me hun

Answer 4

WOW u are a clutz aren't u ? Anyway I would just tell him that u need to be alone to think and heal and tell him that u won't leave the house or flat wherever it is u live. He is just being concerned and sweet and u should lap it up cos they end up not caring after a couple of years or so. You could make him do so much for you that he is the one who will need a breather ? Good luck but I wish I had my own carer too !

Answer 5

haha, just tell him.

its great that you got such a nice boyfriend.

just tell him, "can i try doing stuff myself when im with you? so you can watch over me at the same time."

Answer 6

"how do i tell him that i love him and its really sweet that he worries about me, but i need 2 breath once in a while?"

Just sit him down and tell him that exactly! You can say that you've appreciated what he's been doing by showing he cares, but you just need some space. He sounds like a great guy who's just looking out for you. You're lucky to have a guy like him in your life. :) To keep things going stronger though, just let him know how you feel. I hope it all works out for you. :)