Im <span title="depressed/sad/angry/stressed/and">depressed/sad/angry/stres...</span> desperate?

Question

I've been depressed, school is starting, and im supposed to get cyber schooled and i dont wanna have to wait a long time to get accepted. Im prolly gonna have to go to school for a while. I have to go to a orientation. I have to go to the dentist for braces. I have to go to the hospital. I have to go to get school clothes. I am also desperate. I really want a boyfriend. I have been sitting around doing nothing with my life. I see how everyone has someone to cuddle with. I want that feeling, because i think i would be happier. I know i would. But i want someone who lives around me so that i get to see them everyday. I actually dont know what im asking you. What should i do? Whats wrong with me?

Answer 1

You sound a little overwhelmed and directionless right now. I think you have so much to do and you don&#039;t know where to start. I&#039;ve been there.

Besides loneliness can make you lose motivation big time. Make a list or mark in your calendar 2 things a day,, 2 of those things you&#039;ve mentioned,,and get them done little by little. If your goal is to accomplish 2 of those tasks a day it may be easier. Don&#039;t overbook yourself, it will only stress you out more. You want a boyfriend so that&#039;s good,, you have a goal right there and it&#039;s to get a boyfriend. But you won&#039;t get him sitting at home,, you need exposure. You gotta go out, join  a gym, volunteer a few hours weekly at the local teens club or get a part time job that will potentially expose you to possible candidates. Opportunities don&#039;t really come knocking at your door, you have to reach for them. You sound really smart and you are very aware of your feelings which is awesome. It&#039;s nothing wrong with you, you are going through a stage, and i think mostly due to lack of stimulus. When you are out somewhere, at the grocery store or whatever, don&#039;t look all down and depressed or you are going to scare guys away. Look friendly, vivacious, put a little make up... even if you have to fake it a little. Positive attracts positive. And remember,, if your dream is getting a boyfriend,, then work on  your plan,, a dream without a plan is a fantasy! Good luck to you.

Answer 2

I&#039;m depressed too...does that make you feel better? Misery loves comany ya know. Exercise always helps me feel a little less unworthy. You&#039;ll get over it once you start school I&#039;ll bet. I like you!  

Answer 3

Nothings wrong with you.  Your just growing up.  Every teenager goes through stages like this.  It&#039;s up to you whether you want to continue feeling this way.  You can either just sit back and hope for the things you want, or you can do something to get them.  

Good luck.

Answer 4

just be POSITIVE..

Answer 5

Firstly not everyone has someone to cuddle thats an exaggeration and secondly happiness comes from within, if you are reliant on others for your happiness you are going to be extremely disappointed. So consider all the positives you have in your life, even if they seem small and insignificant, make every effort to enjoy your life and know that when you find your inner happiness you will attract others to you naturally.