Im still talking to a guy my boyfriend asked me not to talk too.?

Question

I met this guy not that long that developed a crush on me. i told my boyfriend and he asked me to not talk to him if he doesnt get the message that i wasnt single. three strikes and i promised not to talk to him again. but yet i still do. its not like im gonna cheat on him....because that kiss during our break doesnt count!...but besides that i just like the flirting and feeling that even though im with some one i still can feel attractive...is a lil flirting and lying to my boyfriend taht im not talking to that guy bad?

Answer 1

if you really like you bf or/and you've been together for a while you should stop flirting it's disrespectul to your bf and if you care about him respect his wises. If he was in a similar circumstance wouldn't you be hurt if he still talked and flirted when you asked him not too? I hope you make the right choice.

Answer 2

I was in that situation before. Lets just say it has the potential to get a little heated! you might say you wont cheat on your boyfriend but if you have any attraction toward that guy at all you might!! if you love your boyfriend i would just be careful with the other guy make sure there is no feelings there and you should be fine

Answer 3

Absolutely!!! jus think if the tables were turned..how would u feel? ur disrespecting ur bf 100%..it really doesnt seem that u have self esteem if ur trying to get attention wherever u can..work on urself before u get in a relationship cuz from the looks of it ur gonna end up hurting ur boyfriend jus to satisfy ur insecurities

Answer 4

In grown up relationships that's a serious no/no. I love it when I was young when little bits of drama didn't mean anything. Try to be a little more level headed. And think to yourself, if he were to do the same thing to you. What would you say???? Exactly! Get with it girl and start to grow up.  Live and learn

Answer 5

You know, i had this happen to me recently except it was my boyfriend talking to a girl he doesnt even know for advice and just to talk because it was his outlet. So being on your boyfriends end with this problem i would say you shouldnt go against your boyfriends wishes if you respect him. I was hurt but then again i see that he needed advice and an outlet but he has respected me and wont do it again. So just try to put yourself in his shoes. Would you like it if he did something that you told him you didnt appreciate? He likes u and thats why he is caring. Think about it, no one likes to be lyed to and if you keep lying a relationship will never work. Good luck :)

Answer 6

If you care about your boyfriend then you are cheating on him and you have NO RESPECT for him.   How would you like it if some girl kissed your B/F and kept talking to her.   If you can't respect him then let him go and stop playing games with him Most of all STOP Lying to him. Your relationship won't last because you are not honest with him. You want attention and you want to flirt  then let your B/F know you want to date others. I have no respect for girls like you.

Answer 7

imagine your bf doing that to you.. there is a girl that likes him and you told him not to talk to her.. yet your bf still talks to her and flirts with her.. i would stop flirting with the guy before your bf finds out.. imagine how hurt and mad/sad he'd be.. stick with ur bf and just be happy together :)

Answer 8

well just think of it this way how would u feel if ure boyfriend did it to you to this girl put urself in his shoes

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Answer 9

you need to be honest with your boyfriend. and think of it this way. if you were him woul you want your boyfriend going around talking and flirting with a girl that you specifically asked him not to talk to??? put yourself in his shoes and its all different. so if it were me i would be truthful and honest with my boyfreind and stop talking to him. it may be fun now and harmless but it could turn into more and end up hurting someone. stop now before its too late and you get in a too deep hole! good luck and just treat ur bf the way you would want him to treat you. and follow your heart and do whats right. good luck!!

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Answer 10

I like this question and I'm going through it myself in a way.

I don't think it's bad as long as you dont like cheat on your boyfriend.

We all deserve friends other than the people we're with...

Answer 11

what's more important to you, your boyfriend or your friend? "cause if you promised to break it off, it's not fair to either guy. Your boyfriend is counting on you breaking it off, and this other guy  who has a crush on you is probably just getting his hopes up  about wanting to be with you.