Im terrible with women....?

Question

im in my early twenties.....nad am absolutley retarded with women...

i mean i can talk to them harmlessly..as friends or acquaintences or whetever..but i can never express any feelings i have or dare approach them...

i always convince myself theyd rather be g*y than go out with me....

idk..i think im getting a little old for this problem..what do i do?

Answer 1

Ah fear not....you're not alone.  But to rise above the rest you have to tweak your inner self.  You have to know that you can get women and you have to show these women that you're confident.  You cannot care what women think of you and you cannot fear rejection.

So many guys put so much emphasis into what to say, how to act, etc.  But picking up women is quite easy as saying "Hi, how are you."

You say that much with confidence and good body language....it's a great starter for conversation.

Answer 2

u have absolutely no confidence...begin with that, u could try to make yourself look better and be the guy you would like to be

Answer 3

Stop stressing about it. Think outside the box. Stop being "yourself" and become an actor.  When I used to meet women, I was  "acting" a part in a movie.  I tweek the character to the situation.  Also, go on Match.com.  and approach women on there so that you get used to it and dont have to face the embarassment of rejection.  If a woman starts talking to you, she has considered the possibility of romantic interest with you to begin with, so there arent any friend issues.  Meanwhile, go ahead and develop even more female "friends", but only good looking ones who might interest you.  One of them will catch fire.  I have this totally extremely hot girlfriend, who is waaaayyy out of my league, with whom I was "only friends" for two years. I was "acting" and I was the most sensitice guy in the whole world. She eventually saw that I was the only one who was always there for her etc... and now I have a frickin HOTTIE who is 11 yrs younger than me completely in love with me. Be patient, tactful, operate strategically.  Think of it as a "Campaign".  You have to step outside yourself.  Dont bee afraid to do corny and romantic stuff.  If a girl rejects you... just go on to the next one, or dont take no for an answer and keep trying with her.  Remember, step outside yourself, dont be embarrassed, because you are not you.  You are the character you're portraying.  Eventually, it wont matter anyway.  You'll be in your thirties or forties, you'll have two ex-wives and three kids, and you wont have anything to do with broads anyway.

Answer 4

WELL.. U CAN ASK UR WOMEN FRIENDS AND TELL THEMM WHAT TOO DOO TO CHANGE AND BE BETTER .... U NEVER KNOW.... MAYBE AFFTER SOME CHANGED U'LL BE PERFECT

Answer 5

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhiHjCCeJ...

Answer 6

You have to get rid of that crazy train of thinking, mate..dog ! Don't believe it...not for one second !

And, as far as talking to women, i believe that you should start somewhere, and put yourself on the cutting block. Get out there and take a few punches, because it will toughen you up, and believe me, when the time is right for you, you will start to blossom like a flower, or grow like a tree.

I bet , if you take my advice youll be giving advice to others before long.