Im trying to have a baby, any tips???

Question

My husband and i are trying to have another baby, but are struggling. four miscarriages so far. What am i doing wrong??? How can i get pregnant??

Answer 1

I went through alot! Pills,Ovulation test,watching the calendar,Taking my temp!!! You name it and my husband and I probably tried it!! We tried for 3 years!!! My friend gave me this advice and I got pregnant in 3 months after trying it the way she told me!! *Below is what she told me*

Remember you ovulate 14-16 days before you start your period. The time to have s*x to get pregnant is when you are very wet,slippery,and stretchy down there*******,alot of women's right or left side will hurt when the egg is released.******* You need to have s*x atleast two or three times the week of ovulation to get preganant.*****VERY IMPORTANT! Stay laying down 30-45 minutes after s*x DO NOT GET UP AT ALL.WAIT TO PEE!!! *****It takes 30-45 minutes for the sperm to reach the egg to fertilize it.Hope this helps!!:) Good luck****

It took me three years of trying and I got this advice from a friend and I got pregnant in Three months after I took her advice:)

All it really is is just paying attention to your body! :) Once you get that down you might as well go out and start buying maternity clothes and baby items!!! :)

Answer 2

just try to relax...there is a saying about trying too hard...

it took me three years to get pregnant after my first because my husband and i wanted it too much...

we both quit concentrating on conceiving and just enjoyed what we were doing and it happened..

i would get a complete physical with your OBGYN doctor though to see why youre miscarrying so much...

good luck and relax..

Answer 3

Just keep trying, I guess.

Answer 4

ask your OB!!  

Answer 5

omg first off, I'm so sorry about the miscarriages. second of all, there's many causes of miscarriage but the most common known causes in the first third of pregnancy (1st trimester) are chromosomal abnormalities, collagen vascular disease (such as lupus), diabetes, other hormonal problems infection, and congenital (present at birth) abnormalities of the uterus. also, watch your food intake such as alcohol, too much caffeine, raw meats and raw fish. it also may be hereditary since problems like diabetes or simply miscarriages can run in the family (the problem could come from either side. u or him). i'm not trying to scare you (sorry if i am) but if it gets serious and u cannot get pregnant without a miscarriage then, please speak to ur doctor about it. there are numerous other causes that would take very long to state right now. good luck to both of you! i hope everything turns out well =)

Answer 6

I took folic acid and materna a couple months before we started trying to get my body ready for the pregnancy. Worked for us, maybe will for you to.  

Answer 7

you arent doing anything wrong! you should talk to your doctor.

Answer 8

ok, well right at the end of your period, ovulation, is the best time, because it is a fresh egg and is very prone when connected to sperm

Answer 9

tell yer hubby to quit playing leap frog with a rhinorcerous.

Answer 10

s*x during ovulation

To capitalize on your chances of getting pregnant you must first understand ovulation and why it is important for conception. It is the most fertile period in your cycle when the egg or ovum is released into the uterus. During this fertile period you need to make love every couple of days. By doing this you can almost double your chances of getting pregnant. Remember that the sperm can live for anywhere from 48-72 hours within the woman’s reproductive system depending on the how favorable the cervical environment is. Sexual intercourse every 2-3 days, around or at the time of ovulation, should be adequate to achieve pregnancy.

Abstinence for baby making

There is a common practice where many couples believe they have to save the man’s ejaculate until the exact moment of ovulation. You don’t really have to do that. In fact, having s*x often ensures that the sperm in a man’s ejaculate is as healthy as it can be. Storing it up can decrease its motility, so don’t be tempted to put off intercourse until you ovulate, and don’t abstain for more than seven days in a row. Read our article on whether abstinence from s*x can help to improve the sperm count for related information on this topic.

Ignore all the myths that the man will ‘run out’ of sperm if you have s*x too often. On the contrary, some men have a drop in their sperm count if they don’t ejaculate regularly. It is true that the density of sperm in each ejaculate diminishes with frequent orgasms. But remember that it takes only one healthy sperm to make it to the woman’s Fallopian tubes during the time of ovulation. So density is less important than quality and motility here.

This is not to say that you should have s*x every day during or around ovulation when attempting pregnancy. Every second day during the middle of the cycle is ordinarily enough. And while you are being familiar with your cycle, it’s equally important that you try to relax and enjoy s*x. The more relaxed you are, the better your chances of conceiving. So have s*x not just for the baby but for yourselves too.

Day or night!

Some people believe that day is a better time for baby making s*x because the sperm count is higher then as compared to nights. While some studies claim that a man’s sperm count may be higher in the morning, the differences are minimal. This slight difference in the sperm count is inconsequential is affecting your chances of getting pregnant. Recent research shows that the best time of the day for s*x if you wanted to get pregnant was in the early evening between 5 and 7 pm, when sperm counts are up to 35% higher, sperm are livelier, and women are more likely to ovulate. Keep in mind that far more important than the time of day is the time of the woman’s cycle.

Some other tips for boosting your chances.

It would also help to boost your chances of getting pregnant if you avoid douching prior to intercourse. Douching can disrupt the natural environment of the v****a and cervix, making it difficult for sperm to migrate. If you need a vaginal lubricant, be sure to carefully choose. Many lubricants on the market today say that they are sperm friendly but unfortunately, that just is not the case. There is one lubricant on the market, Pre~Seed, which has the scientific studies behind it which prove it is sperm friendly. It may also help if you work on the positioning of s*x for baby making while figuring out the timing. Some recommended positions for getting pregnant include man-on-top or rear-entry. These positions help to pool the sperm as close to the cervix and increase your odds of getting pregnant.

Good Luck :o)

Answer 11

stop trying, relax, enjoy it!  t  xx

Answer 12

Your body may be telling you to wait a couple of moths before trying again.  Make sure you are eating healthy and exercising.  Lots of colorful foods, they are rich in all the nutrients and antioxidents you need.  After intercourse lay in bed for 10-15 min with a pillow under your hips and keep your knees up, that will allow the ejaculate to more time with gravity to aid in the fertilization of the egg.  Best of luck.