Im trying to love evry1 unconditionally n be kind n thoughtful evn if they dont do the same,is this possible?

Question

im really trying to change for the better>.<

Answer 1

Thats awesome that you&#039;re trying to improve yourself. I respect that more than anything in the world.

However, when it comes to loving everyone the same, that is/or should be impossible. I&#039;ll tell you why:

Could you love a child molester and your best friend the same? Of course not. Now ask yourself why. I know that is extreme, but think about it.

Why do some people deserve respect more than others? The answer is because they earned it.  Its a ploy to get people to believe they should love everyone equally/unconditionally.  Think about that: unconditionally.  To love someone without condition.

Being kind is a way of showing respect, which should be done, but that doesnt mean that you necessarily respect them.

Answer 2

Turn the theory into practice

Answer 3

Great idea, totally impossible but a nice idea. You can be a better person but there is no way to &quot;love everyone unconditionally&quot;. Being kind you can do, being thoughtful is easy but you cannot love everyone. There are always people who are not lovable and forcing your self to show emotions that are not there will make you seem fake, not nice.

Go all out in your efforts to treat people as you would have them treat you but when it becomes obvious that they are not worthy, walk on by.  Otherwise your good intentions will be ruined by the feeling of failure in being able to maintain a stance that is simply not feasible.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Of course it&#039;s possible =)

Wake up every morning and tell yourself that your love is unconditional and that you want to be a role model for everyone you meet. Don&#039;t just hear yourself say it, really listen to it and let it soak in.

Remind yourself throughout the day of your goal, and eventually, it will become habit. When you do something repetitively, the neuron links in the brain strengthen and, with enough strengthening, becomes second nature.

Look at the whole picture and the long-term results of your actions, not the immediate results. Sometimes it may seem easier to take the path of least resistance, but if you can resist your urges to get back at someone who wrongs you, you&#039;ll have much more positive results come back to you.

&quot;The thought manifests as the word. The word manifests as the deed. The deed develops into habit. And the habit hardens into character. So watch the thought and its ways with care. And let it spring from love, born out of concern for all beings.&quot;

- Buddha

I wish you luck with your journey!

Answer 5

That sounds boring.

Answer 6

nothing is impossible, it can only be improbable.  it&#039;ll be hard.  you would have to lose some of the emotions that make us human.  and not everyone deserves to be loved.