Im upset and i dont understand?

Question

its summer break i had a graet day seeing my family and stuff and i have been seeing friends

anyway ive turned down the last 2 parties cos difficult geting home and stuff

also i feel very insecure about the way i look recently i feel like ive put on a bit of weight

anywya my supposed best friend had a party last nite wich ididnt go to ecos i didnt wna be tired or hungover today cos i never see my aunt and uncle and yeah

i sent texts and coments to my friend asking stuff and got nothing back

anyway ive just looked and theres pictures of all myf riends they liook like suchj s***s like pouting in corsets and their tummies and **** out and just it really upsets me im like wat the h**l these are my friends and i feel so out of place and i dotn no wat to do i no its a silly thing to moan about i just i cant explain i dont understand why it upset me

Answer 1

Just remember friends come and go but family's always there. If you feel like you don't have the right friends make change. You just need to stay true to your self. If you feel like your gaining weight go ahead and exercise even if you are not fat it is healthy for you but trust me you are most likely just right just be yourself and beileve in your self if you do that every thing will fall in place.

Answer 2

u gotta stay confident and stop worrying about what ur friends are like. cuz u are u and dont do stupid things to try to fit in cuz its gonna benefit u nothing.

well ur either upset cuz u didnt get to be with them and they didnt reply to ur messages or comments

or its because ur upset cuz ur friends are so out there doing bad things.

theres nothing for u to worry about because u did the right thing to see ur family and ur family comes before all ur friends.

think about it this way

when u get hurt or ur in trouble its ur family that backs u up

not ur friends

cuz they would just turn their backs on u

i learned this the hard way

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Answer 3

maybe you know you shouldnt hang out with people lke that or since theyre are your friends you dont want them to become s***s and etc!!maybe it just upset you cause you werent there!i think you did the right thing by not goin!