Im upset at my husband..y did he do it?!?!?

Question

i hav been married for about 5 yrs..im very happy..altho im far away from my family. generaly im a lil bit a jealous wife, lil bit insecure!!! i havnt met my family in 3 yrs, so i decided to go to my country to meet them, alone!! i told my hubby to call me every day. then when i went to my homecountry,, days passed by,, and my hubby stopped calling me. he is in show business so im always worried about the women wandering around him. i called him and i asked y was he not calling me?..he said he would..he was just busy...ok..then days passed by and again..he stopped calling me, started acting distant. finally i called one of his close frnd to ask wats goin on and he told me that its about this'woman'..i was so scared..i took a next flight and came back..and when i came back..there was my hubby smiling at me..when i asked him wats this all about, he told me that he and his frnd just played this whole thing with me so that 'll come back soon..wtf?!?!..im so pissed at him..its been 3 yrs i visited my family and i planned on living there for 2 mons at least..instead i came back in only 15 days..when i asked y..he told me that i wouldnt come soon if he only asked me to do so..so intstead he played this game...im so pissed at him!!!hw can i handle this situation..wat should i do about my immature husband?!?!

Answer 1

good experiance to u.

Answer 2

You not loving as much as he.2 month way from him in other country.i like his punishment.i clap for him.bravo brother.2-3 weks is o k.you make him do that.shut up and be happy he loves you so much.i hate women like you.greddy for love,from parents and husband.my sister in law like you.when her husband massed up than she open her eyes.

Answer 3

Firstly u have to know that most of the men are like this. In the psychiatry the man is defined as polygamy .To get more meaning for this see in the wikipedia.Ok,U must close ur job from where u r working and come to the close of ur hubby and stay together it is the most better i think.There is no other solution in these type of problems.

Answer 4

I think you both need some help. Your jealous and I think he wants to make sure you stay that way. He likes you being insecure, its a controlling thing with him.  

Answer 5

Hi,

I think you should talk to him and clear out that you didn;t liked the game he played with you so that you can come back. He should have understood that you are meeting your family after 3 years. In fact he should have called you and requested you to come back and if you didn;t wanted to come back so soon then he should have respected it and should have understand you. Try to explain him this. Might he will realise it and wont repeat it again.

Answer 6

Ha ha a you think he is immature ? think again....

Answer 7

i think he is intrested in other woman u need a  partner i am there for u and to slove it k  

Answer 8

I would feel like I married the wrong girl if she WANTED to be away from me for two months.  When I'm away from my dogs for a week I can't stand it.  I think when you look at this man you see a wallet.

Answer 9

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It is worth  doing

Answer 10

I think there is another woman and he confessed it then got scared so lied about it, either way he sounds like a jerk.  

Answer 11

well i think it is a silly game ur hubby played he obviously doesnt value ur feelings ....it was more  important for him to manipulate you  into returning rather than letting you spend time with your family

i suggest ( although childish do the same next time he leaves for an important stint away from home get one of ur gfs to call and say shes seen u with a man and he needs to come home )

yes i know it is childish but really  he needs a kick up his azz

Answer 12

Distance makes differences most of the time between couples. who knows what you are doing there in his absence, every situation is vise-versa.

Answer 13

He is having an affair, it's pretty obvious to me. Also, you mention his immature behaviour...what about yours? You obviously never trusted him (you admit to being jealous, and that comes from your own insecurities). I think you should dig deeper and get at the truth. I am SURE he has pulled the wool over your eyes...

Answer 14

U're husband is not immature...he missed you a lot and is too possesive of you that he cannot even spare you for your family - you shoudl be happy and shoudl call yourself lucky - is he not staying away from his family and is totally only yours??

Answer 15

Would you prefer if he was messing around it's bad that they played this game but it could be worst. Why not bring some of your family to you as a compromise you get to see them and he gets to keep you.

Answer 16

I don't believe it's a game. I think he might have been cheating on you, that's the "game' he was playing, and his friend was covering for him. this is classic. and if it was really a game it was a very selfish one.

Answer 17

hahahhaha Sweety Lucky u  are!!Nothing to worry.He really loves u so played game...DOn't worry!!Sometime dis immaturity gives ur best moment of ur life.

Answer 18

it sounds like there really was another woman and hes lying to you, this is clearly a cover story and personally i would go talk to his friend..