Im very self-conscience?

Question

im almost fourteen and i am about 5'5 and weigh about 107 pounds. i have long legs and a long torso. and my b***s are pretty small. i am so self-conscience about my body and when i look in the mirrow i just want to cry. but everybody thinks i look fine and that im lucky to be like this. please help!

Answer 1

well listen to those people!

u are lucky

Answer 2

Don't put yourself thru such pain. I guaranttee you that your are beautiful! You don't need boys after you like a pack of dogs in heat to validate your beauty. I KNOW you are beautiful! Do not waste time being critical of yourself. Be the best you can be on the inside, as the outside is wonderful! I am sure of it. Trust me, be happy, and make good choices. As a man, small b***s are always more attractive to me! Really, but these things should not be first and foremost on your mind, although it is perfectly normal to feel this way. Your world is sending you many a mixed signals....listen to your good heart, use your head, and listen not to the world. I wish you the very best, be good to yourself, you deserve it. Be careful what you post online, you have an honest and sincere self about you, many a evil people do not want the best for you so please be very, very careful. Peace my friend!

Answer 3

a lot of people are self concious

you just have to learn to be comfterable with yourself

maybe it will help if you wear stuff you think looks good on you more often

Answer 4

Don't even worry about it! I go through the same thing all the time.

Sometimes, I'll look in the mirror and think I have really huge times, other times too skinny thighs, and sometimes I think they're just perfect. It's completely natural to feel awkward about your body - everyone goes through it! You may feel like there's something wrong at first, but chances are there isn't.

My advice: Don't stress about it. A guy once told me that the sexiest thing about a girl isn't her body, but her confidence and the way she holds herself. So instead of being self concious and asking people all the time how you look, be completely comfortable with your body and how it looks, and I promise you, before you know it, you'll end up appreciating your body.