Im very shy... I only have 1 friend?

Question

I have only one good friend... (friend H) I'm really shy, but she has Im of friends. At lunch, she sat with all her friends and i went there too, thinking I could make friends with them. All they did at lunch was talk, and I was to scared to talk too... I smiled alot, and they would smile back, but they would just go right on talking. (I already know their names) So pretty much all i did at lunch was watch them all talk, while i sat on the very edge. I have no other table to sit with at lunch either. Whenever she sees one of the friends she sits at lunch with, and im talking to her, she ignores me and goes to hug them, and laugh. I always feel like crying at school, because she is my only friend, and she ignores me alot.

Answer 1

Break out of your shell and break away for her friends and go meet other people who have the same problem. Be outgoing and just have fun.

Answer 2

I'm sorry to hear that, but I used to be like you.

Firstly, she isn't even a 'real' friend. You might as well break friends. You don't need to be cool. Try making friends with others. I know it's hard, but I've been in this position many times (I'm constantly moving - awkward first days, culture shock, etc.) In fact, I've just moved school - it was terrible for me and I was PETRIFIED. But it turned out alright.

You don't need to join any sports club. What do you like? Reading? Art?  Try visiting the library often, you might meet some really friendly people there. You join what you like.

Answer 3

Awwwww....I'm sorry about that.

Join clubs and teams or something.