Imam a little hurt should i be?

Question

i have a old friend that i used to work with. so i went to this bbq and it was decided to her father that just past away. she is nice but different. anyways my husband &me walked up this hill and their she was. she gave me a big hug. well while she hugged me she then looked straight in my eyes and said bonnie i have a present for you. i said why to her. she said remember when we worked together it was your 25 years marriage. i said yes she said she had a gift for me she has had for 2 years. she said let me go get it. then she came back and handed it to me. she said well here it is because at the time we did not talk. Listen guys i didn't want to stop talking just quit my job for health reasons. but anyway it was a picture frame. anyways is it wrong to feel hurt. because she did not give it to me earlier. or how would you feel if this happened to you thanks by the way should i send a thank you note or let it go thanks. and why is she now talking to me again.

Answer 1

I don't understand why you would be hurt.

She just went through a difficult time and she was reaching out to you. I think it was nice of her to give it to you. At some point she thought of you. She kept the present all this time.

If you were ever friends, maybe you could give her a call sometime...meet for coffee...

If she was just an acquaintance, then let it go.  

Answer 2

I think you shouldn't feel hurt about it. Perhaps, since you left (even just for health reasons) she forgot about it. And you should send a thank you. And maybe the reason she's talking to you again is you guys used to be friends and she misses you ^^

Hope I helped.