Imam sad when Hubby is Sad what to do now?

Question

Last night and allot lately my husband is sad. we have been married 27 years we raised 3 children together. they are all adults 2 of them still live at home. anyways last night we were driving to drop something off at the oldest kids place. my husband told me that was stupid wasting gas. he also said i don't know any thing. he puts me down allot. and imam not working. i don't really want to work. in the past i did made money and it all went to him. anyways he tells me i don't get it with life. i know he works hard and all. but no matter what i say he tells me imam know good. and he is tired of me free loading. and things were going to change. my daughter also says i spend money to much. i do at times hardly nothing. he has already taken cars away from me. i have bowling once a week and don't do anything besides that. so now he is un happy i cry saying what happen to us i try to put romance in our life s*x is maybe if imam lucky once a month or once every3 months. kids tells me if i left him they all would be happy even my husband way doesn't he love me anymore help imam hurting fast.

Answer 1

look baby it hurts ik that please don't get freaked out from that this is coming from a 16 yr old but hey look up in the sky and believe him and he will send u a miracle ur husband will come back

Answer 2

When you say "imam"...

imam:

1. the officiating priest of a mosque.  

2. the title for a Muslim religious leader or chief.  

3. one of a succession of seven or twelve religious leaders, believed to be divinely inspired, of the Shiites.  

Answer 3

Something must be wrong if your kids want you to leave their father.They must think your to good for him.Sometimes being married for so long,people fall out of love.Maybe he loves you but isn't IN love with you anymore.It happens.You need to talk to him and ask him where you two have gone wrong and does he want to save this marriage?But maybe he's sick of pulling the load.He IS older than you and can't understand why you won't work.Why don't you work,anyway? Maybe if you get a part time job he'll feel different.Nobody really wants to work.Neither do i! But sometimes it takes two to pay bills etc.He's probably tired,ya know? just sit down and talk to him.