Immature question but I need to know what's up?

Question

Okay so my fiance's father's high school reunion is coming and he says he doesn't want to go. I questioned him during dinner to why he doesn't. He told me because the girl he use to have a MASSIVE crush on was going to be there and he farted really really really loud and pooped himself. (no joke) according to him and he was lead out of class by his teacher to go clean himself up. My question to you is if you ever soiled yourself in class and your high school reunion was coming would you go and not mind the people or not go at all? Serious answers please thankkk you <$$$

Answer 1

I could understand why he did not want to go.  That would be very embarrassing and has obviously stuck with him all this time.  Even if no one brought it up at the reunion, just being there would probably be enough to have him constantly thinking about it and enough not to have a good time, so why bother.  

Answer 2

Unless your fiance is really young, it&#039;s likely this was such a long time ago that no one would remember.

If it weren&#039;t for this, would he go?  If yes, tell him to go.

What&#039;s the worst that could happen?  Someone remembers. They laugh at him. He leaves.  Then he&#039;s right back where he is now.

Odds are in his favor on this one.

Answer 3

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha  

Answer 4

Going to a reunion IS all about the people.  Who wants to be reminded about the label they had on them back in high school.  This guy has a very valid reason to not go, to the reunion that is.

Answer 5

Well, I suppose the phrase &quot;..and I could never show my face ever again..&quot;: does have a foundation after sll.......

Answer 6

Mature Answer.

I am assuming it has been quite a few years since the event you described occurred and most of the &quot;kids&quot; have probably turned into responsible adults. Even when it did occur, the kids that did notice may have thought &quot;wow that must be embarrassing, I hope he&#039;s alright&quot;  (the girl he had a massive crush on might have thought this). Get my drift, some probably don&#039;t remember the incident or associate the incident with him after all these years. Others wouldn&#039;t care or would be kind enough to make sure he felt welcome at the reunion or polite enough not to bring it up, including this girl. I bet part of the &quot;crush&quot; was due to her being so nice, I know my crushes were. If someone did bring it up a simple &quot;yes, that was embarrassing&quot; would suffice. It would be a miracle if you could go through school without ever being embarrassed, everyone has suffered one or more of these moments.

Having said this, it really depends on how he feels about going or not, weighing the pluses or minuses. Wanting to attend the reunion and see and talk to her again versus the initial embarrassment he may feel.

I would go just so I could relive the other 99% of those memories that were good.  Hope he decides to go.

  

Answer 7

being known at the dude who crapped himself is not pleasurable. I could understand not going.

Answer 8

I agree with Mature answere above, MADDOG , you know whats going on!

Wow, that must have been really bad for him and I&#039;m sure he still remembers all the details. I would think that kids have become adults and that they would put that awful situation out of their minds. I would tell him to go and just have fun, see how everyone has changed. Catch up on where people are in life, after all that is what it is all about. Tell him he should try and put it out of his mind for that night and enjoy him self. He is cheating himself out of a good evening.