In India Search a Marriage partner for a hindu in his religion is very tough, how overcome from this problem?

Question

I am an indian businessman & hindu also aged 30 approximate still unmarried because of this foolish culture or tradition to search a life partner in hindu religion.

First i tell you, in hindu religion there are many castes division as khatri, brahmin, vaishya , rajpoot, mahajan, jain, aggarwal, hindu punjabi, shudra and others etc.etc. and no one want to marry intercast strictly, and you surprised to know that hindu community even dont like marry their children in other hindu division or they also dont like marry with other religion i.e. sikh, muslim etc. or else.

Secondly, in their own caste division, they search marriage partner through astrology, i.e. kundli milan where they find koot milan scores and manglik dosha and other various boundations for searching a good life partner.and if luckily match the both kundlis then you must ignore other things whether its big or small.after that meeting or other boundations.PLEASE TELL HOW HINDU FIND PARTNER WITHOUT FRUSTRATION??

Answer 1

come on it's so easier

love any girl and then married her

it's ur life . do wat u want

Answer 2

There are so many websites to search for a girl or boy. You try Shaadi.com, bharatmatrimony.com, jeevansaathi.com etc.... Inspite of this individual community will have there own marriage beuro. Go and register your name there and they will give you photo and biodata of many girl. If you are upset about the releigion go for an intercaste marriage. there is nothing like that if you get good understanding girl.. dont be disappointed..good luck

Answer 3

honey first of all you can do nothing without FRUSTRATION. starting from time we were all children it starts with FRUSTRATION BUT IT GROWS TO ACHIEVEMENT DONT GIVE UP .ONLINE IS A GREAT PLACE TO START LOOKING ...I GIVE YOU MY BLESSINGS

Answer 4

Thanks for educating the world abt indian class/caste/sub-caste system. ur knowledge is extensive. does it extend to reading/understanding advertisments too?? there r loads of matrimonial sites where u can specify ur requirements......... such a waste of good FRUSTRATION ...........

Answer 5

The first and only dating site where Castes don't really matter. Although you do have to mention your caste.

www.shaadi.com

Answer 6

GET MARRIED ABROAD, LIKE HERE IN THE UK.  DO YOU WANT GET MARRIED ABROAD?  ALL IS ON DESTINY, AND WE OURSEVES MAKE OUR DESTINY.  ITS ALL OUR DEEDS.  KUNDLI, AND ALL THIS MATCHING IS JUST AWAY OF MONEY MAKING.  EVERY MOMENT IS GOOD.

Answer 7

Yeah I had kind of same situation. Well a little bit diff. I am Hindu Patel. When I was in high school I used to wear my glasses. Everyone would say it would be difficult for me to find a good match because I wear glasses. I used to be insecure and started thinking what if I never have to go for an arrange marriage and find true meaningful love relationship instead. And here I am with a guy for more than 4 years and we belong to diff caste but who cares, I don't have to waste my time going through every guy within my caste humiliating my self over my looks.

You are well settled man and it wouldn't be so hard to for you to find a girl. You can't change the system but then you don't have to follow it either. Do whatever is best for you. Good luck.

Answer 8

Come on man. You're telling me with over 1 billion people in your country you cannot find a wife. I will give away one of my trade secrets that has made me successful with the ladies here in the states. When I say successful I mean SUCCESSFUL. Three things to remember.(This applies to bringing em  home from a bar.)      1) Go Ugly early, don't wait till the pretty ones are gone to pick an ugly one. 2) Lower your standards. And finally remember that no woman looks that bad when her face his buried in your lap. Good luck!